Should I be encouraging this?!!

[merciasounds]

Elderly couple, he widower, she widow, both mid 70's, had grand day out yesterday, this morning he says he feels 20 years younger!

[samak]

Yes

[merciasounds]

Glad you said that!! ;-)

[boxtops]

Definitely! where did you go, in the end?

[Sqad]

What actually are you encouraging?

[Euphemia]

Without a doubt

[boxtops]

Does it matter, sqad? ;-)

[cazzz1975]

no, nothing worse than having a friend trying to match make you with people.

[Sqad]

Well...yes it does. I don't know the past history, but I presume that mercia means a "love affair".......and if that is the case, then my reply would be to "mind his own" business and let them get on with it themselves.

If it is just "friendship", then I feel the same.....don't encourage or discourage.

If I have missed the point then i must apologise.

[Sqad]

just seen cazz's reply........and i agree with her.

[Safiya]

I agree with cazzz

[boxtops]

Psst, sqad, mercia's not a bloke...

[Sqad]

boxtops...LOL....I get confused on AB.

[Carakeel]

If both are happy, why not? It is their business, nobody else's!

[RATTER15]

Why ever not? go for it!! never too old to fall in love :-)

[Sqad]

carakeel....eh? why not what?

[boxtops]

Absolutely, my sister met a lovely chap through their families and friends suggesting they were suited. They are still together.

[merciasounds]

http://www.theanswerb.../Question1019696.html

[boxtops]

A good choice, mercia - Ludlow is lovely. What a good day!

[Sqad]

merciasounds...LOL....sorry....so you are the female (widow) and the widower is your day out partner.

Sorry all, including carakeel............I read it that the OP was a third party........;-(

[Carakeel]

squad, did you not read the questions?? I guess I need to spell it out for you then. Obviously, I am for encouraging the two of them having a great day out and perhaps a bit more! If this made them feel happy and young again, why not enourage it???