I an sick and tired of considering the needs and more often wants of the first wife...it extends to kids and i am feelimg like an unpaid home help that has to deal with all the issues of kids etc whilst being ignored and not considered when it comes to tickets for school etc...when I am the one that has promoted honework etc...she is thick as two short planks....
my point is ..that although all these years i have cared..holidayed..put up with adolesence when their mother cant..helped with homework because she is thick etc,. when it comes to anything importamt ..my thoughts/wants dont count
I'm in the same position Murray. Used as a carer, bank, taxi service, cook, cleaner, laundry, homework assistant and in return? Wall to wall crap, unreasonable demands and applications to court at the drop of a hat!!
is the dad involved in their lives? If so, can't really see what you are complaining about - are you saying you will help with homework and childcare as long as you get something back?
don't know whether to be upset that you lot...by now...don't know that i am female !!!!! even given my infatuation with Sqad...he isn't gay is he ...lol
Back to Mrs O's answer then. Be busy sometimes..but insulting the ex won't help... if the kids came on here and saw it they'd probably be really upset... Try to rise above it...help when you can but unfortunately when you take on a man with kids always expect to come second/third if you are really unlucky
i have NEVER insulted first wife and even gave money out for mothers day /birthday etc for mum....reminded abiut cards ats .. I HAVE been exemploray I deserve a medal but it is still little things like tonight I cant go to a prize giving,,,last one 6th year as head boy when i have been to EVERY PARENTS NIGHT AND PRIZE GIVING SINCE HE WAS 5 YEARS OD