I wouldn't normally open my heart on here...

[NoMercy]

You guys know that I don't often do 'serious' but this is one such time.

He and I really want Baby. I'm 35 in a couple of months and he's had the op.

The situation is breaking my heart right now.

Is there any way he can get it reversed on the nhs (bear in mind he was forced into this by his ex wife at the tender age of 25) and if not, how much would it cost to have it done privately? :'(

[MarkRae]

Anything between £2,000 and £4,000:
http://www.privatehea...t/vasectomy-reversal/

[micmak]

Have a read at this.

http://www.yourvasect...IzL7asCFcod4QodMFD8CQ

[Mamyalynne]

That is so sad to read, do hope you can get it sorted. Wish you well - both of you.♥

[swilliams75]

My brother in law had a reversal done on the nhs and then went on to have twins. someone else i know didnt have as much luck and they have been trying for the past 7 years. i think she is to old now though. you could always adopt.

[cazzz1975]

reversals can work, I would get the wheels in motion ASAP xx

[NoMercy]

I just had to go inside the house and have a little cry. This has really got to me lately.

I don't know whether being reunited with my family after so many years has had any bearing on how I feel right now but the maternal gene has well and truly kicked in.

[China Doll]

You want the name of my old consultants?

[boxtops]

NoM, it's worth looking into, Step 1 would be for him to go and see his GP.

[ummmm]

Best of luck NoM. He's still young enough xx

[sara3]

bless your heart, NoM.. I wish you both all the very best xx

[NoMercy]

China... I would appreciate any help. This situation had really been heartbreaking.

[China Doll]

I will email you on the yahoo address I have for you.

[NoMercy]

I just want to thank everyone for their answers. X

[NoMercy]

Thank you China x

[China Doll]

No worries, and email has been sent.

[NoMercy]

I cannot thank you enough. I will thank you enough. I will check emails tomorrow. X

[China Doll]

No thanks needed, it may come to nothing but it'll at least give you a starting point. Take care :c)

[ethandron]

NoM, i know two people personally who have had reversals and gone on to have children, one was 34 years ago (the baby is now a barrister) and i'm sure things have vastly improved since then, the other was 9 years ago and she's my god daughter. both of the men involved had had the op at least 10 years before the reversal, probably a lot longer in one case. i'm sorry i have no idea about nhs or private and the costs.
don't give up, keep on keeping on.