Table dancing

[tinkerbell23]

On tv just now..."table dancing diaries"

I find it a bit strange that guys go in pairs
Or groups to watch someone dance?

Not that i frown upon it as such but isnt it weird to go and almost be "turned on" with ur pal sittn next to u!? Lol

Hmmmmmmm

Do u mind if ur OH goes? Would u go as a woman? Xx

[daffy654]

I've known straight men who sat and watched porn together (and did what men do when watching porn), they didn't seem to think it was odd... I was a bit shocked by it when told.

[tinkerbell23]

Hmmm come to mention it ive heard of a similar situation myself - bit weird?

Fair play to the girls who do it- most for a good reason- but i fail
To understand whats so good about a no touch, not fully naked dance... Arent you left skint....and erm...frustrated!?? Lol xx

I dunno if id mind my OH going...paying for dances would mabye make me frel
A bit insecure xx

[anneasquith]

tink..................dont knock it till you tried it !!!!!!!!!! :)

[tinkerbell23]

Anne- i actually want to visit one!!!!

Just the thought of someone turning my mr
On more than me i thnk id hate LOL!!!!

But id go to one!! Xx

[anneasquith]

tink....... just how many men who go, actually recall the experience. re the amount of alcohol/drugs taken

[tinkerbell23]

Alot wont lol

But on the prog they seemed pretty with it!! Mabye its a power thing but i imagine ur left mega frustrated! X

[anneasquith]

any joy tinks with the grad dress ?

[tamborine]

They spend all their earnings in these clubs & return to gf for free 'satisfaction'. The dancer runs all the way to the bank :)

[tinkerbell23]

Not had a chance anne got some suggestions on here who ive yet to thank i think- thanks for reminding me!!!!!!

Yeah tambo thats the way i feel- would thy be thinking of the dancer when..ahem with me!? X

[Old_Geezer]

I think if folk go in groups to watch such an show then it does two things. It adds the support of mates so one doesn't feel awkward and vulnerable enjoying the show; and it also achieves the goal of making it not an act of desperate need but a simple pleasure enjoyed by the group in much the same sort of way one might watch a comedian or a play or whatever.

As for "what men do when watching porn", I can only assume there are some folk around that hold different opinions from myself. Something that may be indulged in, in private, is not expected to be done with others present: but maybe I've just less extrovert views than some.

[pa___ul3]

I used to work in one when I was younger, we very rarely had fellas coming in on their own, apart from the odd regular, most of the time it was groups of lads before a night out in town pretty much thinking 'if your going to have a few drinks in a pub you might as well pay an extra tenner and get a naked woman wiggling in your face!', I think it's as simple as that!

[pdust]

i hate to say this in case anyone on here has gone on their own but..... years and years ago i used to go to a pub that hired strippers sometimes. It was always advertised and the pub used to get pretty full of men in groups... the ones that were on their own were seen as pervs for some weird reason.....

[Ankou]

i remember in my school years bundling around a mates house to watch his dads porn together but we didn't "do what men do when watching porn" together. anyone who even got so much as a stiffy was tortured for the rest of term and them some.

as regards table dancing, sorry it just doesn't do anything for me. i find it quite tedious. when i do go it is as a group, usually stag party or football team night out, but no its never ever a turn on, with or without me pals present.

[tamborine]

ankou tell me when you're in & I'll dance for 50 bucks :)

[pa___ul3]

definitely agree Ankou, they're always so mechanical and only doing it because you've given them money, it's pleasant enough but does nothing for me!

[tinkerbell23]

You have almost confirmed then what i say- bit of a "buzz" but no real pleasure!!

Glad actually x

[Slapshot]

I'd rather give Mrs Slapshot £50 to go and buy herself something slinky to entertain me instead....I find the thought of these places rather unpleasant, either way you're getting ripped off the minute you walk in the door.

[tinkerbell23]

Great slapshot!!! I hope i get a mr like that!

I see strippers at parties- male ones ... And sometimes im like yeah es goodlooking but im not "turned on" and i wouldnt be thinking of him"later"

So mabye its unfair of me to think that a potential mr of mine would be thinkinh of a table dancer later xx

[MarkRae]

Tinks, I think you're slightly inaccurate about the male psyche. Even if we've been watching beach volleyball, by the time we get into bed with our lady, she's all we're thinking about...

[ELVIS68]

Most blokes I work with think they're a waste of time and money but there's a couple of blokes who spend upwards of £200 in there when we're out on a works p1ss up.

Most of the women have fake tits anyway which is a no no in my book lol