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i think he's got his life sorted, own place and a girlfriend on tap - ditch him! Its hard but you'll end up paranoid all the time that he's mucking about. Ive been there, so have friends, when someone in the relationship breaks up saying that "they dont know what they want" they know EXACTLY what they want, its an excuse... whether thats seeing other people or not - but when they feel lonely, you will get a phonecall... its up to you what you do, but do your own thing as well!!
It also depends on how much you are interested in commitment. It could be that you are also happy to have an on-off relationship, or at least, to leave it as on-off for a while until you see how it pans out. If I was you, I'd try to have the same attitude to it as he does - he's a nice person that you can spend time with, sometimes... but not a 'serious' relationship. Perhaps if you step back, just chill for a while about the whole thing, but with no need to break it off just yet...
However, if you really, really want a full-on serious committed relationship, he's doesn't seem ready for this, so you will have to make it clear what you want and if he isn't seeing the same as you, well, it's hard but he has to go...