Ah! Andy ...this is not a critisim of HIM it is an indictment of HER.
This applies to 1 in 3 women.......I don't believe that for one minute...I believe that after 2 years of marriage it is more like 2 out of three women regard sex as a chore..................and there lies the problem.
How do men deal with this?
Some men just resign themselves to no matrimonial sex and it really doesn.t bother them as they compensate with fishing, football, going down to the pub.
But what about those men who still like a bit of feminine anatomy?...! No problem...massage parlours, escort agencies , mistresses.......and the like.
All three sides are happy...the wife is unloaded of the chore of sex, the husband is sexually satisfied and the other woman is happy or relieved, for many reasons.
To me...this is a non story.