Jokes1 min ago
sex life
any suggestions what do you do when you like to have sex all the time and your partner doesnt ????-
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.There are different aspects here and what you'd ultimately do would depend which is the most important. Behind it all, a few people just don't care about sex, I know a couple and I doubt they'd care who they were in bed with. They'd really be better of with someone the same for obvious reasons.
If theyy've gone off you (or were never really on) then it's really time to start looking elsewhere as people rarely reverse that sort of feeling, from what I've seen.
Finally, to echo the previous advice, if it's something less important than the whole relationship which is otherwise fine then if any arrangement can be worked out to make both happy then that's the best way. I would add anyone who's gone off sex is usually carrying pretty heavy issues and counselling would really be the best place to find what they were. People don't usually go off sex for nothing and it's rarely about the partner but something from earlier. I can say this as it's part of my job to work with these issues.
This may sound a bit crude, but serious. Get her a few toys (battery operated) n give her some space to use em.
If she gets desperate, I think she'd stray and that would be a shame. Time is a great leveler, bridging the time gap is a little trickier.
On a humorous note, take a dose of viagra one night and give her 'what for'! that'll teach her!
how about we all swap about a bit so we all match up right ?? haha
seriously tho i know what it is like as i am married to a wonderful wife that has been abused as a child and so finds sex very very difficult at the best of times, whereas i have a sex problem where i cant stop thinking and craving it all day everyday!
We dont know what to do either as her suggestion was to get me a lover she chose and comfortable with! So do i go along with it or suffer forever?!??!?