Boy Troubles....

[krissy04]

Alright, here it is...ive been 'seeing' this guy for a couple months now... we do everything that boyfriends/girlfriends do. I really like him. And like he hasnt 'offically' asked me out. He introuduces me as his friend to his friends and stuff...and im wondering whats up..like if he just wants to be friends cool...but id just like to know..im tempted to ask him if he wants to be my boyfriend lol ...what do you think is up with him? And what should i do if this continues?!

Thanks!!!!

[admarlow]

I think the best thing to do is talk to him about it, and how it makes you feel.

[misska]

Hi Krissy. I remember when I had been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months (we've been together 6 years now), we hadn't discussed whether it was going to be an ongoing thing or not but it was obvious that it was. So, as a joke one day I said to him "So, do you want to go steady or what?" The look on his face was priceless (because he thought there was no question of it being a steady thing and was shocked that I would). We both had a great laugh and we both knew where we stood then.

I think that its best to discuss these things, you need to know what he is looking for and decide if that is what you want too. Life is too short to worry about 'does he, doesn't he'. Just ask him and then you will be free to enjoy the relationship. Good luck, M :-)

[hectic]

Hi Krissy04, I was in the same situation as yourself not that long ago, I had been "seeing" this fella for about 8 mths, doing everything that boyfriends and girlfrinds do and my advice to you would be to talk to him and try and find out where things are going because I learnt the hard way by pretending that everything was plodding along nicely only to find out that he didn't want a relationship of any sort and my heart was almost broken.  He had said that he thought I'd known as we hadn't discussed it before.  Incidently when he said this and I said I was off because I wasn't being a "shag buddy" anymore he pulled his socks up and we've been together for almost a year now properly.  Talk to him otherwise you could let yourself get too involved with him only to find out that he doesn't want a relationship and you could end up being more hurt, hope it all works out for you lol

[kazzee69]

When me and my boyfriend got together (almost 5years ago) we started out 'seeing' each other but we acted exactly like a normal couple. So I just said 'are you seeing anyone else?' and he said no so I said 'then we are a proper couple so lets tell people we are'