Am I Going Crazy? Any Advice!

[SA64]

My partner and I have been trying to conceive for over a year. This month using the Clearblue fertility monitor I was told my peak fertility time was 8-10 days after my period. My cycles are usually 32-40 days long. So far i'm on day 21 DPO and no period. I've had sore breasts, constipation and then for about a week constant period pains but no periods. Last night I saw two spots of very light blood and fell apart thinking it had not worked again fully expecting to wake up in the morning to a full period. Later in the night I had CM that was dark brown, this morning there is nothing-even now still nothing. I've still got a dull ache and I feel like i've done 500 sit ups. I've done two Pregnancy tests and both came back negative. Am I holding on to nothing? My husband just thinks I'm over thinking everything and my period will come?

[boxtops]

I think you should wait a bit longer - after all, a year trying to conceive is not that long in the scheme of things (although I know it feels like ages). Your being so anxious about it won't help, i'm afraid. Good luck....

[Prudie]

I certainly had really bad period cramps etc when I was first pregnant. Don't quite follow the acronyms or numbers. By day 21 do you mean it's about 11-19 days before your period is due? If so may be too early for a test.

[Sqad]

My bet....you are not pregnant.

Repeat the pregnancy tests in one week.

[SA64]

Thank you all for your responses. I came on my period this evening and felt a massive relief to know one way or the other. Maybe next month :-).

[anneasquith]

good luck .

[jaysonrexs]

I feel that your period will definitely come, lets hope for the best.

[Mamyalynne]

It did