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Oh Me Or My You Make Me Sigh!!!
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what do I do to do it right.
Just off the phone after about 1 hour with 45 years friendship with a friend.
This friend's son is married to his wife for 20 years.
But there is a massive split in the camp - has been going on for 7 years.
I have got friendly with the other camp family throu the CU and my friend - I think -is inadvertently is angry. I don't have any other communication only CU for about 1 and half hours which we work through
What the funk can I do. She is broken hearted her son and grandchildren have not been seen her for (perhaps since 2 Xmases ago) while - she definitely reared these grandchildren big time until they were about 10 - they are now 16 and 12.
Son and daughter-in-law remain estranged from her (my friend)- and because I know estranged family - "not blaming me" but I do get bits and pieces of CU of which I do not try to tell her - ie estranged going on holiday, estranged bought a uniform. (I don't tell her - she asks me)
God I am weary - I do have so very serious problems of my own. So she ended the conversation after several MONTHS - WILL RING YOU THROU THE WEEK. I am leaving it at that - after 45 years.
Just off the phone after about 1 hour with 45 years friendship with a friend.
This friend's son is married to his wife for 20 years.
But there is a massive split in the camp - has been going on for 7 years.
I have got friendly with the other camp family throu the CU and my friend - I think -is inadvertently is angry. I don't have any other communication only CU for about 1 and half hours which we work through
What the funk can I do. She is broken hearted her son and grandchildren have not been seen her for (perhaps since 2 Xmases ago) while - she definitely reared these grandchildren big time until they were about 10 - they are now 16 and 12.
Son and daughter-in-law remain estranged from her (my friend)- and because I know estranged family - "not blaming me" but I do get bits and pieces of CU of which I do not try to tell her - ie estranged going on holiday, estranged bought a uniform. (I don't tell her - she asks me)
God I am weary - I do have so very serious problems of my own. So she ended the conversation after several MONTHS - WILL RING YOU THROU THE WEEK. I am leaving it at that - after 45 years.
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Pixie - she very much knows I am not as involved. But I do think perhaps me knowing re knowing uniforms holidays etc - hurts her. But she does ask.
She has become isolated (married) one husband - no children at home one dog.
My sister has lost her son for good - my friend has a chance with him. Unless you know the full story - you couldn't write a book. I will lay my head down. Thanks Pixie. XXX
She has become isolated (married) one husband - no children at home one dog.
My sister has lost her son for good - my friend has a chance with him. Unless you know the full story - you couldn't write a book. I will lay my head down. Thanks Pixie. XXX
Our friendship will be okay (I hope) we have gone through so much - however, daughter-in-law etc is constantly on her mind.
She blames daughter-in-law for estrangement and thinks this is the way daugter etc wants it - I myself do not see an end in sight cos I love son (but he is a bit of a wimp big-time) definitely will do what the wife says not the mother and I am afraid friend's husband is no good either (a bit wimpish too) and afraid of confrontation. Will make arrangements for her and I to go out for a drink and meal within the next 2 weeks but the whole conversation stems around those two.
She blames daughter-in-law for estrangement and thinks this is the way daugter etc wants it - I myself do not see an end in sight cos I love son (but he is a bit of a wimp big-time) definitely will do what the wife says not the mother and I am afraid friend's husband is no good either (a bit wimpish too) and afraid of confrontation. Will make arrangements for her and I to go out for a drink and meal within the next 2 weeks but the whole conversation stems around those two.
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