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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Firstly lainiej, don't be annoyed with yourself. You're not CHOOSING to have this problem, and you ARE seeking to rectify the issue... so that is the first step!
This may sound a bit 'inward', but how do you actually feel about yourself ? (I'm not asking for you to tell us all, but to think about it.) I have known people, including myself who have 'gone off it' because they/i had either a lack of self-esteem or other personal 'issues' which were not necessarily obvious to them.
Also, being careful what i write here due to this site being a 'family' one, do you ever feel sexy when alone? I'm not suggesting that you ONLY feel like sex when alone and therefore not with your husband, but if you DO have those feelings at other times it might be useful to look at why you do, and perhaps go from there.
Btw, it is completely NORMAL to lose interest on and off throughout your life. Most of us have experienced these feelings - so don't feel alone :0)