I Too Am Feeling Sorry For My Self.

[Jeza]

I was really hoping Mic would be home by Christmas. Not a chance I was told today. Ain't life a bitch. I shouldn't feel sorry for me. Mic is so p1ssed off and he's getting really depressed about it. He wants to come home, I want him home but we are told as yet he is not well enough and even if he was they say I couldn't manage his care on my own. They are probably right, We are still p1ssed off though.

[mallyh]

i'm really sorry to hear that xxx

[Zacs-Master]

That must be really tough jeza. Why don't you talk about a holiday for when he's out? Something to look forward to should help.

[DTCwordfan]

Is there a small cottage or some charity facility where you could go to, jeza, within striking distance of your hospital and that may offer support. In the States, there are such offerings, often run by charities. May be worth a query or two.....

[seekeerz]

That's tough Jeza, a real shame xx

[ladyalex]

So sorry to hear that, Jeza.
I'm sure you would want him home at any time of year, but Xmas makes it worse somehow.
Chin up.

[silliemillie]

Really sorry to hear that Jeza, be strong, take each day as it comes I suppose but it must be a blow for both you & Mic.

[sherrardk]

Ah Jeza, sorry to hear that but probably best to do what the quacks say. Far worse for Mic to come home and his recovery take longer than it should, best he stays where he is for now and comes home fighting fit, x

[starone]

Oh Jeza, what a shame, but they will try to make a nice day of it in the hospital and they will allow longer visiting hours so that you can stay with Mic. You would not be able to help him, he would be too heavy for you and it would not be good if you fell and you both landed up in hospital. Cheer up and try to make the day as good as you can.

[tonyav]

Sorry to hear that, Jeza, yeah life is a bitch sometimes, but I'm sure that the doc's are doing what they think is the best thing for Mic.

[lady-janine]

sorry to hear that jeza. so sad for both of you. will you be able to spend the day with mic?

[Jeza]

Getting to the hospital is no longer a problem as he has been moved closer to home.
Zac a holiday sounds great, alas I think those days are gone.

I'm hoping the hospital has relaxed visiting times over the holiday period. They are very strict usually.

[sherrardk]

Hi Jeza, so is he even nearer now? If so, that must be a small weight of your mind with driving in the dark, etc (not to mention that they must be pleased with the progress he is making). I would think that visiting would be quite flexible over Christmas time.

[DaisyNonna]

Hope you manage to bring some Christmas spirit to the hospital. Must be terribly hard for you both.

[leahbee]

So sorry to hear your bad news Jeza, my heart goes out to you.
Please god that next year will be much better for you and Mic.

[Zacs-Master]

Sorry jeza. Didn't mean to rub salt in.

[ferlew]

Jeza, was Mic in any unions?
Lots of them have holiday homes for members to use.
Just a thought xx

[Jeza]

Sher, he is now about 8 miles away. Much better than before. Closer and in a specialised unit. Some days I really see improvement, other days I think we are back at the beginning.

[sherrardk]

Eight miles is nothing these days. Easy to say, harder to do I know, but positive thoughts, x

[Mamyalynne]

It is no wonder you feel as you do, Christmas is about home and all you can do this year is make the best of it - with a love so strong, I know you will. ♥

[humbersloop]

difficult time Jeza