Feeling Meh

[Purple_Popple]

Due to hearing of my ex husband's marriage...not sure how to feel other than mixed bag of emotions.

[albaqwerty]

oh boy! Are you feeling happy with your life at the mo PP?

Concentrate on that, move on.

I've no idea how and why he's now your ex, and there's no need to go into any detail whatsoever.

You can always sound off here and we'll listen and offer hugs and a kick on the shins as required :-) xx

[Mamyalynne]

I should imagine it is a mixed bag - you obviously loved him and share memories of your time together. Have you moved on in relationship terms?

I think allow yourself a wallow and then try to shake it off and look to your future.

Take care. ♥

[viv38]

I didn't love my ex husband and yet when I heard he was remarrying some years later, I felt 'weird' - can't explain it any better than that. Some feelings are natural, after all you were married to him once. It'll soon pass.

[Peter Pedant]

Cheer up old girl

Hearing - widening the discussion - of the successes of someone who has done you down... well good on them and bad luck to the current people he must be doing down...

we all meet con-men and con-ladies and wonder who he is conning now, poor thing..

[ummmm]

I think it's quite normal to feel like that.

[Purple_Popple]

Peter P...ive no malice whatsoever towards him. I always hoped he would find happiness. He was the best person I've ever known.

[ummmm]

Awww....how long since you split?

[Wharton]

An acquaintance of mine got divorced and re-married. He confided in me, "She was the cause of my divorce and the way things are going she's going to be the cause of my next one" :-). It's only natural to feel a mixed bag of emotions.

[Purple_Popple]

8 years Ummmm...

[ummmm]

8 years sounds quite a long time ago but it actually shoots by...

[ummmm]

Not all relationships end badly.

[jakep]

Oh dear, the love can remain even after divorce. When my ex moved on I was very upset but, as a unit living together, we did not work so I was pleased for him.
Give in to 'meh' for a couple of days and then try to feel ok again.
Best wishes.

[craft1948]

When the first Mr Craft re-married his mother rang me up to complain he hadn't told her about it.

[Mosaic]

Bluddyell! I just read 'when Mr Craft remarried his mother'.....I MUST read ahead more often.

[Purple_Popple]

Well it's the weekend and I must try and keep myself busy to stop thinking and wallowing..I actually am feeling quite low, almost like Im back at the grieving process again when we split up ! Hate feeling like this, just want to sit and cry.

[berniecuddles]

aww bless, i know its hard at the moment but it will get better, big cuddle for you xx

[Mamyalynne]

So often the hardest things to bear are those we can do nothing to change, allow yourself this time for thought and reflection - I do feel for you. ♥

[boxtops]

I must admit that I was pleased when I heard that my ex had moved in a new lady friend - it showed he'd moved on. They're still together, some 25 years later.

[Psybbo]

P_P, thinking of you xx