Best Friend's Crush

[Autumn_Carie]

I have a friend who has a major crush on this other guy at school,she is so obssessed with him but the thing is the guy kinda has a crush on me he talks to me on facebook and he even calls me ,I am not interested in dating him he is just a friend,should I tell my friend about this?

[Cloverjo]

I don't think so. It's not going to do any good. She will still have a massive crush on him - It's not something you can switch off easily - and might be jealous of you. You don't have to feel bad about it. You're not doing anything wrong.

[bookbinder]

It might be best not to meddle in others' relationships. If things go wrong, and someone gets hurt, you might end up being blamed, when you were only trying to help.

[DSJ]

Don't get involved.

[MallyJ]

No need to tell her.... he is a friend.... as I am sure she already knows. Do take care not to get at all involved though. By that I mean no taking messages or anything like that... and , if I were you, I would not talk about one with the other either. If you do you will just be in the middle of a potentially horrid situation. Smile politely and change the subject if one starts to talk about the other. That is a good way to keep both as friends.

[pixie374]

I'd tell her. Go with honesty and it's up to her then.

[grasscarp]

Does talking to someone on Facebook or calling them or being a friend amount to having a crush on them? I wouldn't have thought so.