X boyfriends

[barclay]

Ive have already been on here before asking advice about my ex-boyfriend. This was before I went away to america. But things still have nt changed, he still calls and texts me and asks me to meet up with him. But he still has a girlfriend. He text me while I was away saying he was still in love with me! I dont know what to do? Does he just want me for one thing? Or does he actually care about me? I think its a case of Want what you cant have! If he likes me so much why does nt he finish with his girlfriend? Or does he just want me to wait around for him? I think what makes it so difficult is that I am still single, so he probably thinks I still like him. What should I do? What is he thinking?

[spk]

sweetheart he wants to have his cake and eat it. He cant bear the thought of anyone else having you, so if he hangs around and still has a finger in the pie you wont be with anyone else. I have several ex boyfriends like this. The best thing you can honestly do is try (and I know how difficult it is ) to cut way back on the communication. Change your number. Whats happening now is draining and it just makes it harder and drags it out more. Do what you know you need to do and walk away. Believe me you will look back down the line and ak why you didnt cut him out earlier. Good luck x

[Chessman]

From a male perspective looking on, spks post sounds about right, especially so if it was him that broke the relationship, leave him well alone, unless you want another broken heart.

[Gef]

Tell him to f**k off and ignore his emails etc.