Am I Lesbian?

[chanmi24]

Hello.....i dont know if i always had a gay tendency, but i am a tomboy so... Ok lets start: i am girl and i am 13. I discovered kpop 1 year ago when i was 12 and until i discovered kpop i've never question my sexuality. I discovered a lot of kpop boy bands with very handsome boys and yes, i felt in love with some of them but no, not to much. It was just the love in that moment or day but when i discovered girl groups i just felt in love with them more than boys....since 6 months i am so in love with a member of a past group and she is just too perfect for this planet...i know it is so weird but please dont judge me...and im so in love that i sometimes cry when i see her with boys... i have never been in love like this....i am almost depressed because i love her to much and my love is growing up every day. I dont know what to do...i know i will never meet her because i live in europe, far away from South Korea...i just wanna know your opinions, you think im lesbian? Please dont laugh at this....

[B00]

"you think im lesbian? "

doubt it, probably just a girl crush, I had such a one with Madonna in my youth!

But even if you were, nothing to be alarmed about, especially at 13.

[wildwood]

If you still feel the same way when you're 18, then you may be. Many girls (and boys) in their teens like to 'experiment' but it usually settles down when they reach adulthood.

[MallyJ]

Give yourself a break and stop worrying about it now...all will become clear as you get older... but we often have crushes on people of the same sex in our teens ..or crushes on the opposite sex or no crushes at all....don't rush to label yourself....time will tell.

[jourdain2]

Probably not. More than likely it is a 'crush'. At the same age I was besotted with Dusty Springfield. Usually it is a phase, which most of us go through - a form of hero (or heroine) worship. As others have said, wait. I would say that 21 would bring you certainty one way or another.

[tonyav]

What is kpop ?.

[Mamyalynne]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/K-pop

[tonyav]

Thanks Mamya.

[Mamyalynne]

You're welcome Tony.