Porn And Romance

[nailit]

Whats the difference?
(probably get deleted but lets try anyway as its a genuine question)

Men often get castigated for viewing porn and yet 50 Shades of Grey was both a best selling book and a best selling film (and written by a woman and *for* women).
In the book/film the 'subordinate' character gets dominated by Grey, the protagonist.

In 'romance' (the Barbara Cartland type) Men are heroic heroes of the white knight style. (and often unrealistic)

So why is 50 shades more popular that Barbara Cartland amongst women?
Do women like porn as much as men but just wont admit it?

[ummmm]

Romance is about love. Porn is about sex.

[Mamyalynne]

Barbara Cartland was a very astute lady as her position on the list of Best selling authors shows - Romance sells.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_best-selling_fiction_authors

[murraymints]

porn is physical, romance is emotional

[nailit]

There are some dried up old nuns on this site that don't know the meaning of fun and just sharing the joy of their bodies for the hell off it.

[Mamyalynne]

Are there, thank goodness I don't mess with em.

[nailit]

in my opinion that is...

[murraymints]

tee hee..bless you my child xx

[douglas9401]

Sisters are doing it for themselves. :-)

[Zacs-Master]

Ever been married Nailit?

[Islay]

For a start both authors are from different times and back when BC was popular that is how women wished men to behave! Where as 50 shades of badly written is for an entirely different model of woman.
As for your second part - Yes SOME women do enjoy watching porn, I have watched it myself on occasion however its not realistic and therefore should never be taken seriously.

[murraymints]

EEK Douglas !! lol

[nailit]

//Ever been married Nailit? //
only in common law zacs.

[Zacs-Master]

Mmm.

[ummmm]

No such thing as common law.

[nailit]

// Yes SOME women do enjoy watching porn, I have watched it myself on occasion however its not realistic and therefore should never be taken seriously //
As if anyone ever did??

[goodgoalie]

No such thing as 'common law marriage', Nailit:
https://www.familylives.org.uk/advice/your-family/relationship-advice/common-law-marriage/

[Zacs-Master]

Anyone need a pizza delivering? Or the under sink trap unblocking?

[ummmm]

Yes...some do take it seriously.

[nailit]

Ummm, & Zacs
Let me spell it out for you...we lived together. Got it?
Simples.

[douglas9401]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Common_law