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I do have choices - like I could be out probably 5 days a week - there are loads of forums around here, classes in the schools are finished until Sept, but lots going on.
And I could be visiting far more often - very much a friend with dementia in the care home but I have to be psyched to see her as it breaks my heart cos she is not that bad for the place she is in but could not be at home either. She can be cross and unhappy and I know she is saying to herself "why am I here - I wasn't a bad person and so it goes on" so I put that off - now that I am talking about it - I will get down this week. So very harrowing to see. Like all the other patients too and again the staff so kind to them.