Update On Mum

[DarceyK123]

Mum is still holding on in hospital. Her kidneys are packing up and they keep telling us she has 'hours' to live.

Well they have been saying that for 4 days now but she's still clinging on.

I wish she would just give in, i hate seeing her in this state, it's just cruel.

They are talking now of transferring her to a hospice.

[Mamyalynne]

She's not quite ready, one plucky Lady you have there Darcey - hard for you, the waiting and watching. x

[DarceyK123]

She is indeed Mamy, its just heartbreaking seeing her like that.

[Mamyalynne]

I know love, just keep whispering your love and permission to go when ready.

[gness]

Darcey, when I say I know how you're feeling I really mean it.
Last year I was told my mum had hours or at most just days to live. She held on for weeks and I hated every hour of those weeks.
I wasn't allowed to leave Ireland to see her...I'd not have been allowed even if I had made the journey. I dreaded each phone call I had to answer.
It's such mixed feelings, isn't it. Wishing her to pass away quickly seems awful but the living on is, as you say, cruel.
I can't say anything to make you feel better or bear it more easily but know that others have gone through the same and feel for you... Gx

[anneasquith]

Darcey. You must be asking yourself why this is happening to your mum. All I wish for her is she be pain free and settled. This is a dreadful time for you . I’m sorry .

[rowanwitch]

Have you told her that it's safe to let go, that those she leaves behind will take care of one another. I hope I am too late and she left you last night, but either way I wish you all the peace and strength you need.

[DarceyK123]

Thanks, everyone for your kindness and support. Let's see what today brings x

[hannah40]

Sorry to hear your news. I feel for you. I’m 60 and my mum is 90 and I know it will be the saddest day when it is her turn.
I will be thinking of you.
Please let us all know update.

[DarceyK123]

Just to let all you kind people that Mum has now passed, she looked very peaceful when i went to see her, the best she's looked for a while.

Very mixed emotions as you can imagine, but thanks everyone for your support. X

[Mamyalynne]

Oh Darcey, please accept my condolences - she's now at peace.

Take care and hold all the happy memories close x

[Lie-in King]

My sincere condolences to you, Darcey x

[Patsy33]

At peace now.
Heartfelt condolences to you & family x

[Sam1960]

So sorry to hear your news Darcey, please accept my sincerest condolences. x

[jennyjoan]

oh Darcey - I'm so sorry to hear that - no pain like your losing Mom pain but I wish you to get through this as brave as you can xx

[DarceyK123]

Thanks everyone x

[lady-janine]

Sincerest condolences to you Darcey and you will probably be in pain for a while but the best thing is that your mother is no longer in any pain or discomfort.

[wolf63]

I am sorry to read that your mum has died. For her there is no more suffering.