Should I Let Go?

[emilycam]

my boyfriend and i broke up 1 year ago but we talk all the time and are pretty close and even hookup once every month, nevertheless we still fight a lot should i let go or keep trying?

[davebro]

When you say "hookup" what do you mean? Some on here think it means to have sex.

[Peter Pedant]

I do not know why Dave is asking prurient questions this early in the morning

no - move on

[LadyCG]

Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it.

Bin him and move on.

[davebro]

Well I have always taken "hookup" to mean just meet rather than just phoning/texting whatever & I was taken to task on it in a previous thread. But if Emily is still in an intimate relationship with her "ex" it puts the question in a different light in my humble opinion.

[LeonBlank1995]

I am not a jealous man but I would not be interested in a lady who is always with their ex. Therefore, I would argue you are making yourself unavailable for a new romance. There will be people on here who say I am talking 8ollox, but I can assure you when they search their heart, they know I am talking sense.

Ditch the "friendship" and move on.

[Spicerack]

Eat his cake and have it. x

[davebro]

"nevertheless we still fight a lot should i let go or keep trying?"

Are you trying to get back with him and not dating / interested in dating anyone else? Has HE moved on more - has he got/had new girlfriends? Hard to give advice on the little bit of info given.

[LeonBlank1995]

I have just read your other post on Sunday. You state there you "just" broke up.

Forget my last post. Get back with him and share memories and chlamydia together.

Enjoy. x

[Khandro]

[herroo1]

Imo if it's been a year and he ain't interested. That probably isn't going to change, if you mean hookup as a booty call then that changes it from "he ain't interested" to "he is interested in the booty call only" For more serious advice though, I think you need space to get over him. Hell, you even still call him your boyfriend in your post. Give yourself the space you need to make space for someone that treats you well and cares about you. You got this!