Boob size

[Minxie]

I am very conscious of my small bust. Everyone seems to have big ones. My boyfriends ex wife had implants which makes me feel even more insecure. I cant afford implants, and not sure I would even want them. But do all men prefer big busted women?

[jno]

No. Kate Moss seems to do ok (well, she could do better than Doherty, of course). The French say they ought to be big enough to fill a champagne glass. And you mustn't get hung up on your bf's ex. Is the bf giving you any grief about it?

[gemma28]

hi,dont wanna put a downer on it but i have very big boobs and im not that big of a girl and i would give anything to have smaller ones, im only 24 and iv always got back ache,i have just had a baby and they can be so uncomfortable so trust the words and stay as you are,its alot better. good luck in what you decide to do, gemma

[ELVIS68]

No they dont, just because your boyfriends ex wife had them done shouldn`t make you feel insecure.After all he`s with you now and not her,and I may be wrong by saying he`s putting pressure on you to have yours done,but if this is the case,tell him to have his youknow what enlarged and see how it makes him feel.

[iwbus]

Amen to the posting about Kate Moss, there's nowt wrong with smallER ones (as they should be called). If her wants you to change your figure like that you're with the wrong man

[lady_p_gold]

There are more men who prefer small breasts than large in my experience ... an awful lot of men really don't like those busty babe types. What gives you your sexual attraction is the way you feel about yourself ... the overall picture .... so I would try and forget about your boyfriend's ex wife and concentrate on being yourself - you don't go round discounting men because they don't look like body builders or Hollywood stars do you ? That is not what makes a relationship work, its mutual chemistry and enjoying each other's company and if you don't get on with someone in the right way changing your boobs aint gonna make any difference.

[kick3m0n]

yeah I wouldn't worry minxie. Just cos his ex wife felt so insecure that she had to mutilate her body to improve how she felt about herself, doesn't mean you should follow suit.

[WaldoMcFroog]

To be honest, I reckon most blokes just like boobs. I certainly don't have a preference; they're all nice, whatever the size.

[sam82]

<DIV>my friend had the very same problem, didnt help her though that im slim and big chested, although i would love them to be smaller, but this is what gods given me.

[funnywebsite]

There is more to life than big boobs. What about the woman with breast cancer, they are having problems and there are silly woman who are creating a possible problem for the future when the implants start leaking.

Learn to enjoy and respect your own body.

You wouldn't always know this but bras do a great job because if you saw some woman who have big breasts they are all long and saggy and the bra is just holding them up - so it could be worse than have small breasts.

[Hermia]

I've had a small bust and I've had a big bust and small is generally better. Big bosoms put strain on your back and you can't wear flimsy little bras. The worse thing about having a big bust is that you can't get rid of it. When you have small bosoms you can make a feature of them if you wish by putting a padded uplift bra on. But if you are out jogging or are in a situation where you don't want to be ogled you can hide them. Big boobs are always there! Yes, there are clothes which just don't look right on small-busted girls, but there are also clothes which don't look right on big-busted girls. You just need to dress to suit your figure.

I don't understand why so many women think looking sexy and feminine depends on two globules of fat. I've never hidden my bust. I didn't wear chicken fillets when I had small ones and I won't wear a minimising bra now I've got big ones. At least men with very particular requirements know what they are getting and can't complain!

[Cockney_si]

just chose one of many "legs men" out there, then they won't care about lusting after someone else with huge boobs.

[tigga]

Dont worry at all, smaller boobs are great ! My girls a 34b and they are absolutely perfect, and as other posts say, youre better off as at least you know a guy wants to be with you for the more important qualities than to have a trophy girl or a plaything.

[barb1314]

I have often asked this question and most men I talk to say they don't care either way.They love boobs whatever the size!! I have small boobs and do get frustrated that I struggle to fill some clothes but in the summer I can wear skimpy vests with no bra and it's great. Luckily my husband is a legs and bum kinda guy and loves me just the way I am.It's me that gets all self conscious! All my female friends who have the boobs I yearn for say I am the lucky one!! We always want what others have..at least mine are all mine and not increased using silicone.BE PROUD and be grateful you are healthy.

[Gef]

Excellent answer Waldo. Boobs can be nice but overall is more important.

[Minxie]

Thank you for all of you who replied. I am not a young girl, in my 40's have breast fed my babies. The only commennt by my boyfriend that hit me once, was when I was putting on my "padded uplift" bra" he said by wearing that I was cheating. And how would I feel if a man put a sock down his "below" region! I think my small bust was not a big issue, until he told me his ex had implants, oh, by which, she wanted, but he paid for! ummmm

[funnywebsite]

She probably asked him to pay for them. It's what she wanted not necessarily what he wanted.

For a woman to be worried about her body in her 40's is a shame, you should of learned to accept yourself now.