Boyfriend Not Treating Me Right?

[RainbowRainbow]

Boyfriend said he wants to spend the day with me. He takes off to see his mates for two hours then comes back to me and sits by his other mates. I told him off I waited two hours then you not sit by me. He has thrown cigarettes butts at me too.

[Bobbisox1]

Your fault for putting up with that !

[pastafreak]

Dump him!

[ToraToraTora]

I'd give him the old Spanish Archer if I was you. (El Bow)

[Tilly2]

He's no boyfriend. Get rid!

[andy-hughes]

Sounds like you need a new boyfriend who treats you with respect.

Bin him off today.

[gness]

Putting up with minor abuse, such as you are doing, contributes to the dreadful abuse some men inflict upon women when they learn what they can get away with.
Star right. Ditch him now.

[Patsy33]

He doesn't respect you.
Do yourself a big favour and get rid of him.

[gness]

Start! Not star.

[RainbowRainbow]

Thanks. When I told him I don’t want to walk by him. He said I knew he smoked when I met him.

[Bobbisox1]

And did he say you knew he’d throw cigarette butts at you as well?

[RainbowRainbow]

Nope. Throwing cigarette butts is a new thing with him.

[Atheist]

Rainbow. What does your instinct tell you about him? From what you say I think you should despise him. I hope you don't put up with him because you are desperate to have a man, any man, as long as he is a man. I don't know you or him, but if my granddaughter came to me for advice I'd tell her that she can do much better than let herself be abused/neglected by a bully.

[gness]

My husband drinks and eats but he doesn’t throw glasses and plates at me, Rainbow. You can do better than this dangerous guy.

[Bobbisox1]

Throwing butts at you is a new thing? Righto :0/

[RainbowRainbow]

Thanks. I’ll dump him tomorrow.

[gness]

Like I said. They start with minor things....throwing butts for instance.
How far are you prepared to let him go? You've had our advice.

[gness]

Jolly good....tonight would be good though... :-)

[ToraToraTora]

he's a wrong un.

[Bobbisox1]

/// RainbowRainbow Question Author,,
Thanks. I’ll dump him tomorrow.//

Why not now by text?

[Atheist]

Rainbow; do you have to dump him? If you try to dump him you might find he talks you round and makes you feel sad and sorry for him. Just cut him out of your life without asking his permission. People like that should be dismissed from your existence without their permission. He's not worth the breath it would take to explain anything to him.