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I work with a guy who is a transvestite.
We get on well, he presents himself as a male at work.
(which he is)
But on 'occasions' he presents as a female.
The last works AGM (And the one before) he presented as a female.
The previous one was a bit of a shock. The recent one, no one battered an eyelid,
(we'd all got used to it by then I guess)
I don't give a fig about anyone's orientation, if a guy wants to look like a woman or a woman wants to look like a man, I couldnt give two hoots.
(Or if your gay/lesbian, transgenger etc...)
What I DO find contentious, Is the reactions of others.
Example...how would you feel about my work colleague using the works toilet as a man, when dressed as a man, and using the female toilets when dressed as a woman?
We get on well, he presents himself as a male at work.
(which he is)
But on 'occasions' he presents as a female.
The last works AGM (And the one before) he presented as a female.
The previous one was a bit of a shock. The recent one, no one battered an eyelid,
(we'd all got used to it by then I guess)
I don't give a fig about anyone's orientation, if a guy wants to look like a woman or a woman wants to look like a man, I couldnt give two hoots.
(Or if your gay/lesbian, transgenger etc...)
What I DO find contentious, Is the reactions of others.
Example...how would you feel about my work colleague using the works toilet as a man, when dressed as a man, and using the female toilets when dressed as a woman?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I have direct experience of this as a male colleague in an alpha male job role in a male dominated workplace finally opened up and came to work sometimes dressed as a woman, sometimes as a ma and more often than not a mixture of both.
Although understandably he was whispered about somewhat but overall got a very open and supportive reception from everyone including me. In fact he would sk me about make-up etc.
Hoping I've got the right type - he had no desire for surgery nor a permanent transition and has an extremely understanding wife. I was fine with all of it until he came in the ladies loos when I was in there. Yes I was cross and affronted and I think he was selfish and insensitive.
Although understandably he was whispered about somewhat but overall got a very open and supportive reception from everyone including me. In fact he would sk me about make-up etc.
Hoping I've got the right type - he had no desire for surgery nor a permanent transition and has an extremely understanding wife. I was fine with all of it until he came in the ladies loos when I was in there. Yes I was cross and affronted and I think he was selfish and insensitive.
I cannot conceive that I would be in such a situation in the workplace or indeed anywhere else.
Male toilets are for biological males ( XY chromosome) and female toilets are for biological females ( XX chromosomes)
I can't remember the last time I used a public toilet and at work, the above applied.
Male toilets are for biological males ( XY chromosome) and female toilets are for biological females ( XX chromosomes)
I can't remember the last time I used a public toilet and at work, the above applied.
You are correct Nailit, the world has certainly changed, swearing even in children seeme to be tolerated and the "F" word which in my time was regarded as the depth of blasphemy is now in common practice particularly on the TV.
As for sex and sexuality and the new entries into the vocabulary I am at a complete loss.
Luckily, I think, I have lived in the appropriate eras that have suited my personality.
As for sex and sexuality and the new entries into the vocabulary I am at a complete loss.
Luckily, I think, I have lived in the appropriate eras that have suited my personality.