Why Does My Dad Ex Girlfriend Play Mind Games?

[Kingboom]

I'm 28 btw. Long story short this is a woman I had a crush
on for year's, since I was 6 lol she was my babysitter. Fast
forward 14 years my dad is dating her after her divorce.
When I lived with father and her I was always getting
vibes she wanted me but l ignored it, see took me to the
casino for the first time, and we would eat pizza and chill.
I moved out and they broke up and I lived my life. 4 years
pass and she hits me on Facebook telling me to help her
son find a job if I can and I basically used this time to tell
her how I felt about living with her and the sexual tension
but she said we are like mom and son and she said this
will stay between us and I took that for what it was and
move on. Fast forward 4 more years and my dad is
getting married, his ex (my old babysitter) Wanted to go
to lunch with him, he calls me telling me she wants to see
my place, I was confused and declined. 3 months go by
and she randomly sends me a repost of a cat doing
backflips and I was confused so I said "how are you
ms.
" and she ignored my comment, for the last
couple weeks I can't get her out my head. I send her
messages of random things and she views the but
doesn't respond. I even send stuff at midnight and
nothing. I'm confused lol we aren't friends on Facebook, I
sent her a request but she won't answer it or my
messages. Just views them lol

[Canary42]

Sounds like she's not the only one playing mind games. It takes 2 to tango.

[bednobs]

she's not playing mindgames ... seems pretty clear to me she does not want a relationship of any sort with you, no matter what "vibes" you felt

[Tilly2]

Find someone your own age.