What Do Girls Do When They Are Unsure On Someone?

[Karzonian]

Long story short. I've had a year history with this girl. She got a boyfriend, kept speaking to me. He didn't like how much she confided in me. Made her stop speaking to me. They broke up, she got back in touch. We saw one another and had a fun time (if you know what I mean). Now she's seeing someone else and showing distance. Which is fine. Met once more, she came back to my hotel room but nothing happened. Not even cuddling. Just slept. She dated this current guy last year for a month and said he didn't make her feel safe so left it. She has a long history of depression and now going through a psychotic episode (delusions and hallucinations). I saw on her instagram she went from following 400 people to only 60. She never unfollowed me. I find it odd because now we don't speak anymore, I don't like her posts and I never post anything either. She said our religions are why we can't be together. If we were the same, then she'd be with me.

One of my friends said it to me. After a year of this on going story 'she still has no idea how she feels about you'.

Girls, how would you want a guy to deal with this issue?

[Captain2]

Block her phone number and on your social media sites then - if, as you say you're going to take davebro's advice.

[jourdain2]

Don't give her the extra problem of your presence and attentions. She hasenough to deal with.

[Neveracrossword]

Thanks for the update, Karzonian. I'd still want the guy/you to leave me alone, which is what you asked at the end of your OP.

[Atheist]

19:35.
"It does hurt to see what she is going through mentally."
Who does it hurt? You or her? Sometimes you might have to hurt if it's best that way for her.

[Atheist]

BTW; How old is this female person? A girl, or a woman?

[Atheist]

One further point; You refer to 'girls' and what do 'they' do. She's not a 'girl', she's an individual human being.

[Karzonian]

It hurts to see her going through such a struggle. Course I care about her. She is suffering the most, hence why I just give her space.

She's 26 now.

[Atheist]

Yes, Karzonian; it hurts you. But maybe it would be better for you to let her make her own way, despite the pain you might feel.
I don't know you two, so of course I might be in the wrong track; but think about what I say.

[Atheist]

Only you can judge. Why do you come here for advice from strangers? All we can do is bounce a few ill-informed opinions in your direction; it's you who will have to take responsibility. If we can make you think about issues you might not have considered, then that's good. But you choose what you think is worthwhile.
Good luck to both of you.

[Karzonian]

Atheist,

Thank you for your words. I appreciate them. I understand ultimately what the best course of action is. You've put things into perspective for me.

Thank you everyone else who have offered their answers. Sorry if I got offended.

[Canary42]

I'm amazed how many Aber males responded to what a girl would want. Perhaps it shows the arrogance of the gender ;-}

Personally I haven't a clue how a girl would want a guy to deal with this issue, sorry Kharz.

[davebro]

It's called empathy Canary - putting yourself in the other person's shoes & saying how you might react. You obviously don't have it!