I totally agree with neathgirl! I know that breaking up with someone you love his heartbreaking, I cried for like 2 weeks and then some when I broke up with my boyfriend....... but low and behold, i was strong and I didn't call him, gave him all the space he needed, even pretended I wasn't interested when he finally called me.....and we're back together and going strong! It sounds easy the way I have described it but believe me, it was tourture! Just be strong, keep your friends around you, go running, read a book, cry to titanic or some other soppy movie, do anything but don't call him!!!! Just give him space and if it's not meant to be then I promise (and I know I don't know you personally, but it's true for everyone) there is someone out there that will appreciate you for who you are and would never be without you!!! Be strong girly!!! you can do it!