Attractive to women

[GMH]

As a man I get attracted to women who wear skirts, tights, bras and the like. From a male perspective I know that women are sexy. But how do I know whether I am sexy to a woman? As a single man I would like to know what is the male equivalent of a short skirt, stockings, high heels so that I can improve my appearance and know what women find attractive in men. (By the way, I am not some sort of sad so-and-so, but I would just like to know how I can be attractive to the oppoisite sex).

[alijangra]

women dont think the same way as men and find a wide range of things attractive. Also women of different ages will look for different things.

Personally the things I find attractive are clean, neat hair, an athletic or defined body (not a muscle bound ape!) good teeth and good dress sense that suits their body type/age. Good choice of aftershave also helps. I think women are more sensual and respond more to smells.

[cha cha]

amen sista' friend---alijangra.

[sunflower68]

I like a bloke in a pair of 'dirty' jeans, you know, the ones that are meant to look used. Teamed with a cool looking long sleeved tshirt just yummy. Short hair, bit of gel in the fringe also works a treat but that's just me. ;)

[dotjhawkes]

A smile and an intelligent conversation doesn't go amiss either, and the ability to listen, compliment without being insinuating and a love of small animals. Oh, and flattery!

[dotjhawkes]

And riggerboots sunflower! Don't forget the riggerboots!

[Minxie]

Hi GMH, All these attractive things women look for in a man, dont always exsist do they! Just be yourself, a nice smile, sense of humour and dress to make yourself feel and look good. Maybe I am easily pleased, but thats what I think is attractive. Good luck!

[fideldyfee]

I agree with alijangra on this one. A clean, well kept body, nice smell, and immaculate hands and nails.

[Greedyfly]

Im am completely different I honestly dont have a type its the way they carry themselves I guess. I confident man (not too confident mind) is a sexy man.

[laurence2]

I agree with alijangra, But you need to take the blinkers of as theirs many more types of women than what your describing.

On advice, Have you a personality, Most of the points the Ladies have raised in their post, Polite & Good mannerism, Funny but not crude etc etc, but as Minxie pointed out, 100% be yourself

Ps, and 200% good aftershave.

GOOD LUCK

[mydogsandme]

physically- nice hair, good teeth, a man who takes trouble to look good but not TOO good. Mentally- some men just have "something"- an ability to make me laugh, a nice friendly "open" face, honest looking, someone who looks fun to be around and makes you feel good about yourself.

[sunflower68]

I agree with GSOH, a smile, intelligence etc but I thought the thread was partly asking clothing-wise. Oh yes dot, the riggerboots. mmmm

[laurence2]

Sunflower, your right about the thread, Just feel tho he needs a little bit more advise other than clothes

[Englishbird]

confidence. that's all you need, and if you don't have it, fake it.

[terrij]

a good sense of humour....i love to hear a man laugh especially....a man that can laugh at himself..........someone friendly and smiley will win alot of hearts !!!!!!!

[xlaurax]

if anything its easier for you. you dont ahve to go to all the efoort us girls do to get the attention. it doesnt take much to be attractive as long as you have the personality to back it up. but looking gd always helps! try treating yourself to some new clothes maybe something a bit different you only need to look through a magazine to see the new styles in but most of all if you think you look gd then you probally do and that will make you so much more confident another characteristic girls like. dont be shy be confident and most of all be yourself that should be enough to get anyones attention.

[Scarlett]

I think your best bet is to ask a trusted female friend (if you have any) their honest opinion. Ask them if you are attractive, and if not, why not. You will be getting some good advice! For me, sexiness is all about eyes and smile, as well as sense of humour and personality. I couldn't give a stuff what men wear, or what they look like. Short, bald, fat, hairy.. sexiness is something that exudes from within.

[*ALFIE*]

what about a guy who's hair is thinning a little ? and out of interest, is race or colour a popular preference to women ?

[helsbels666]

Trying to hard id the BIGGEST no no. Personalluy, 'try hards' juat don't cut it for me. Be natural. Be yourself. The woman thats right for the real you will come forth. Theres no point being someone else and sending up with someone who is compatible with the new you, or you'l have to keep up appearances forever!

[Jay70]

I agree with helsbells666 100%.