Clubbing

[4getmenot]

When i go to nightclubs I get alot of blokes grabbing my butt. Is there anyone out there that actually likes guys doing this? It annoys the hell out of me and I dont know why blokes thinks it might impress women.

[joko]

I don't think these guys think you will like it, i think they know they haven't got a chance with you so figure a quick stolen feel is the best they can get so its better than nothing.

i would fill this thread with my stories - arrrgghh!

[Drisgirl]

joko - just remind me what exactly did I do to you which makes you want to belittle me at every given opportunity?

I only genuinely remember your user name because you haunt me.

I do not intend to say anything further to you but I would give you a piece of advice - get off my back>Are your eyes green per chance?

[Drisgirl]

BTW Voice of Reason - could you visit grannies 50p site cos I genuinely need advice.No funny stuff - dug a hole etc.I wouldnt ask but I do need your genuine advice.

[4getmenot]

Drisgirl, whats joko done. Peace on my post please :-) :-)

[Drisgirl]

Sorry -4getmenot.

[4getmenot]

Thats ok, I forgive you but only this once mind :-)

[Drisgirl]

I am sorry to you 4getmenot but it is after all an open forum.

joko's last sentence referred to a post I made at 16.11.

Now I dont know you and you dont know me and joko doesnt know me.I think people should be careful when they post potentially hurtful replies.

So for the both of you - Rape arrgghh!!

Just as well I can maintain my sense of humour in the face of unneccessary posts from people who dont know me.

I know I can be a bit fiesty and in your face but I always shy short of being personal because I dont like to hurt peoples feelings - I am aware behind the facade there is a human lurking.

Sorry again 4getmenot and I am grateful for you forgiving me.

[stanleyman]

I appreciate what has been said regarding police action, they may not get a conviction but with all the police attention he'll certainly think twice about doing it again. He will also be on the police DNA database and if he were a budding rapist or other criminal then he will now have little chance of getting away with anything.

My wife was a police forensic scientist and has dealt with hundreds of rape cases. Whilst this gropping activity can sometimes be thought of as a laugh, the people doing it often progress to more serious crimes.

[Drisgirl]

I agree with you Stanleyman and I appreciate your response.Although of is often made light of,even by myself as a form of self protection, it was disgusting and I felt violated.My husband had to come home in the middle of the night via the only plane which was leaving Ireland and then get the train from Newcastle.We lost a lot of money through this mans behaviour and I still have to face him but I rise above it.

[joko]

DRISGIRL - WHAT THE F*CK ARE YOU ON ABOUT?!
My post had absolutely NOTHING to do with you!!
Why don't you get down off your high horse & read my post again - as though it was the very first reply?
Perhaps you will see what I actually meant?
This was not even your question!
I would also like to know, even if it had been directed at you - what part of it was offensive??
It�s agreeing that men can be idiots, & disagreeing that they do it because they think women like it - I explain clearly why I think they do it � sneaky stolen feel-ups because they know they won't get any further, so a sly grope is better than nothing
I cannot believe your arrogance!!
If it was to you I�d have put your name at the top � as is the way on here.
What are you on about �rape �argh!� - read my post, I never mentioned rape!
I said �I could fill this thread with my stories � argh!� � because there are loads of them & they drive me mad!
What in your brain perceives this as a hurtful comment?
Do tell because I am baffled?
Why do you think 4getmenot asked you what I�d done? Because they couldn�t see anything either!
Green eyes? � what are you on? Jealous of what exactly? Haunt you? Get a grip!
Why would you assume I try to belittle you?
We argued once & given this irrational nonsense you�re spouting, its easy to see why!
We�ve chatted a few times since & I�d have thought it was clear I bear no grudges to anyone I have a disagreement with!
You really think you are that important to me that I�d target you?
I cannot believe the utter garbage you have come out with here � I am stunned!
Believe me, If I wanted to have a go at you you�d bl00dy well know about it!
I realize you�ve obviously had a bad time but don�t take it out on me!!
I�d like to know if any other posters can see what drisgirl means?
UN-FCUKING-BELIEVEABLE

[joko]

What part of this links to my post?

�What is it with men in social situations � full of drink.
On a lighter note - well it cant get much heavier than my previous post.Well it could but dont want to go there.I am going to write a book as my brother suggested as each thread on here brings back memories!!
Anyway I digress - I was in a busy pub in Edinburgh and this guy was holding court with 3 birds,I was needing past so I said 'Excuse me' and he said 'How what have you done'whilst chuckling at his own 'wit' and looking at the birds.I said 'Farted and it was a hot silent one' and kept going.The girls all laughed and he was left saying'There was no need for that'.I hadnt by the way - I keep those treasures for the bed to annoy my husband:)�

The work book and the word stories?? Is that all? Tenuous or what!

[4getmenot]

I was making a joke out the whole thing Drisgirl because I really didnt see what joko had done wrong. And also this isnt an open Forum it a site where people answer questions and maybe discuss it for a bit, Although I loved your answers and they made me laugh :-) please so both pack it in because it really is getting boring now, I just think you wind eachother up :-) Forget the past and answer some more questions :-)

[joko]

Apologies to others for my language - lost my temper and submitted before I'd cooled down.
Forgot it's a family site.

Vaguely thought they'd be censored though - I guess they don't if you have already censored them yourself. Obvious really, but wasn't thinking.

[4getmenot]

Very good of you to apologise joko. :-) HAPPY FRIDAY :-)

[natalie_1982]

Ok, I must admit that I can't really see what is offensive in joko's post but I don't know the history between you so there may be something underlying that I don't notice? I don't know. But it does seem a bit unnecessary, I was busy catching up and laughing at the other posts and then BAM a big fat upset on poor 4getmenot's post!

Joko, how's about you do tell us one of your stories? Lighten it up again?

[stevie_c2it]

It's not just the boys that get up to this kind of thing, if I had a pound for every time a girl pinched my bottom, I'd have around �12! (not that I'm counting). But maybe thats just because I've got a cute 'tush'!

[smudge]

The Sun has just come out - yippee!

[4getmenot]

smudge ?? Is it sunny where you are??

[smudge]

Yes, it is in South Bedfodrshire 4getmenot!

Ooops, spoke too soon - it's popping in & out now!!

[4getmenot]

Tis sunny here aswell :-)