My imagination ?

[*ALFIE*]

I work with a senior collegue at work at an office. I have only been working here for about a month. We both sit opposite eachother in one room. She is my advises me with work as i am an administrator there. I have noticed that when she talks to me, she screws her eyes at me slightly,at times turns red and gets very nervous when we talk or especially when i talk to her. Like as if she shys away slightly be looking away and slowely covering her mouth. Then when i am at working away, I can tell that his looking at me from time to time, but this maybe just to keep an eye out how i am working. Sometimes when i am talking to her, she starts playing with her ? she trying to get my attention ? does she like me ? or could it be all just be my imagination ?

[*ALFIE*]

I mean to say "sometimes when I am talking to her, she suddenly starts playing with her hair? "

[*ALFIE*]

what do all you women think about the situation ?

[DMA]

I wud take a chance. just go and stick your tongue doon her throat.

[lady_p_gold]

Well just because she goes a bit red and nervous does not mean that she fancies you, it could just mean she is a bit shy around blokes, or there could be a sort of attraction but it doesn't necessarily mean she would ever think of doing anything about it. If you are both free and single I am sure as time goes on if you both liked each other it would eventually find its natural course. I would strongly advise against any sort of sudden move on your part though.

[*ALFIE*]

well i admit, she is a wonderful human being, but she isn't my type and she has a partner anyway. I just seemed to notice her behaviour these days, like she is trying to get attention from me or something. Then when i do chat to her, sometimes she makes me feel that I am "chatting her up" as she goes all shy on me and blushes. Sorry if you all think I am going on abit here...

[smurfchops]

ALFIE I'm glad you explained the question mark 'she starts playing with her hair' otherwise you wouldn't need any answers from us.

[thepodgod]

Depends. Is she a minger? If so, leave well alone, its a nightmare when you dump a work colleague. Is she a cracker? If so, I agree with DMA. Are you a minger? This might be why she goes all red, because she is embarrassed to be seen talking too you. If you're both mingers, you could get on together quite well. Is your radar so small that you have to pull birds at work?

[Dollie]

alfie - dip yer bread in !!