Are Labour Preparing To Dump The P M ?
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You have to ask yourself who is will be there for you in the long run! Maybe if you stopped going down the pub the missus might appreciate it and who knows!
I would personally take the wife away for a few days without the kids if possible and try and rekindle the spark that hopefully was once there.
Well firstly I don't know you, your wife, or the girl in the pub and I'm not about to guess how nice/nasty any of you are. Just because your wife is your wife does not make her the nicer of the two women or in the right and just because the girl fancies you does not make her a"slapper" or in the wrong.
Examine what's wrong in your marriage however,and try to get some lines of communication open and make some decisions. If your marriage is worth saving then try to save it and if it's not, cut your losses and move on.
My first wife was an utter bitch, my second is wonderful. All people are different and you have only one life so make rational, reasoned decisions to be happy, but don't just go chasing the first girl that comes along because your wife doesn't want to have sex with you.
well said nox.
sometimes its best to just cut your losses than carry on flogging a dead horse, just because you are married.
you only get one life - life spend it being miserable and making someone else miserable?
however, only you can decide whether your marriage can be saved though - we don't know the details
i suspect lankeela gave you the answer you really wanted though....mmm? permission, green light, encouragement...?
Are there other problems in your marriage? Communication etc? I've been accused of cheating when I haven't and it really hurt. I think you should tell your wife about this woman and make it clear nothing has gone on. Then talk to your wife about your own relationship and discuss ways in which to make it better for you both.
Your wife maybe steering clear of you in the bedroom because she is really stressed out in thinking you're seeing someone else so reassure her this isn't what is happening and go from there.
If this doesn't work then maybe some time apart to think about why you married each other and whether it is worth saving is probably a good idea.
I wish you all the luck in the world x
off course, you know you should not be unfaithful to your wife. you know the right thing to do, if the tables were turned, would you like your wife to be unfaithful to you? communication is very important in a relationship. have you ever flirted with this girl or encouraged her in any way? did you all stop having sex since you started visiting the pub?