broken heart

[rowie]

what the hell do I do? When does it stop hurting?

[dot.hawkes]

bez hun you're being a bit free and easy there, steady on hun

[Redbel]

Well yenno me Dot......easy come easy go.....LOL

[little coojy]

hugs please more hugs

[dot.hawkes]

Bez hun i have heard that

[Redbel]

Shhhhhhhh Dot....Don't tell anyone hun!!

[dot.hawkes]

well what about u and that DJ eh?

[Redbel]

What DJ?........Oh yeah....the one who I got the ciggie off.....well his bird gave it to me.....LOL

[jno]

awwww, c'mon guys, give rowie a break, her heart's hurting and her inbox is filling up with emails that have nothing to do with her!

[dot.hawkes]

well at least she gets email responses to her posts then, cos i don't jno, how many times have i asked the Ed about that? Eh hun?

[Redbel]

rowie......apologies hun......I hope things get better and hopelfully we will have given you a bit of a laff aswell.....we are here to help.

Take care hun...XX

[dot.hawkes]

Bez is really lilo lil u know.

[little coojy]

dot.hawkes you crack me up

[Redbel]

Dot.....Avaline is on her way to sort it out......TART.....LOL

[dot.hawkes]

ooooooooo, look a thead with over 50 posts! Is this record Aveline?

[rowie]

Thanks to everyone who replied its nice to know that people care xx

[GraceAnais]

i comletely agree that everyting happens for a reason and that you will go on on meet someone who is much better for you. i always trust in the fact that something better will be coming myway soon (it's the only way - stay positive, how else would we get out of bed in the mornings?!!!)

but can i just say that i broke someone's heart a couple of years back. we were in a long term relationship but things hadn't been right for a while. my life was on track but his was falling apart. i tried desperately for 2 years to make it work but then i realised that all i felt for him was pity and that the respect had gone. i tried to end it many a time but he pulled on my heart strings. in the end we had a big argument and i took my opportunity; told him it was over and that i never wanted to see him again. i wrote him a letter to explain but we never really had 'the chat'.

when he sees me in the street now he blanks me and his friends tell me he still can't move on. im sure he thinks i'm an awful person but the truth is sometimes relationships don't work. sometimes you fall out of love with someone and you can't help it. sometimes u think you can make it work but you can't. it doesn't make u a bad person.

i have carried the guilt of this breakup for a long time; but all i did was fall out of love with someone. i know this must be awful for you but at least he had the guts to end it rather than string you along. sometimes it's just as hard to be the 'dumper' as the 'dumpee'.