Chatting up women

[jibjab]

I have just finished with my girlfriend of 2 years (well, she finished with me)..........I went away this weekend to try and get over it with some mates.......and I noticed something. My girlfriend was very bossy and never let me go out at all.....I noticed that in our group of 4 lads....the other 3 are good at arguing their point whilst i am not.

I have been told that i am very goodlooking but come accross as shy or aloof even......the thing is I REALLY DONT WANT TO BE.

I got chatting to some very pretty girls over the weekend, but I don't seem able to get them interested in the way that I want (I wish i could read their minds to know what they are thinking)....but most of the time i just assume that they wouldnt be interested and dont bother asking.....


I just want your opinions on what I should do.....

I am good looking, 24 years of age but the thing letting me down is my confidence and belief in myself

Any help would be great Cheers

[andy-hughes]

Self-belief is something that comes with practice.

You will come accross to women as a pleasant change from lads who think they are God's gift, with their 'chat-up lines' and cheesy attitudes.

To see if a girl is interested, look at her eyes. If she holds eye contact when she looks at you, and smiles as well, she is giving the signal that she is interested, so why bring the subject around to a new film. Say you are keen to go, and see how she reacts. If she is positive, ask her to go, and take it from there.

Women are much more subtle than men, but if you learn to read the body language, the signals are there to see.

Good luck.

[sense4all]

I ,for one ,always found the Quiet man of a group was always the most interesting person in the long run. Don't change a jot, when someone is interesting and interested, I'm sure you'll manage to sort yourself out! Have a rest, get used to being on your own for a while.

Hair flicking,and lip licking (her own) is also a sign that a girl likes you, now that Andy has you tuned into body language.

[littlemissx]

glad to hear you finally got rid of the b!tch... your always moaning about her.