Secrets and attraction....

[whiskeysheri]

Do you keep secrets from your partner/potential partner?

(Do they know about AB? ;o))

What's acceptable to keep quiet?

Any 'secrets' that have gotten you into trouble before?

xxx

[B00]

1. Nope


2. Yep, he often reads it over my shoulder, or I read the funnies out to him.


3. Anything which may hurt the person involved.


4. God yes!

[helliebobs]

ooh Boo! please expand on number 4!!!

[*Zeus*]

Its acceptable to keep quiet that you went to a lapdancing club with your mates.

[mkt]

i try not to keep secrets from my partner but im pretty sure i have innocently omitted to mention things in the past, probably still do. Have never actually kept anything terrible a secret though. Obviously i've bought the odd pair of shoes that were a, ahem, bargain (!) and mysteriously managed to lose the receipt ;o) but no big conspiracy thing going on!

To keep secrets you need to tell lies and to be a good liar you need a very good memory. I'm well aware of the fact that my memory is rubbish so not even gonna try!

[bellasasha]

1/ no

2/ i agreee with boo, anything that is likely to cause pain or hurt

3/ erm....kinda!!

zeus i wouldnt mind you going to the lapdancing club!! i'm not that kind of girlfriend!!!

[helliebobs]

Sasha, I agree about the lapdancing thing - I don't mind that at all for some reason!

[~Wingnut~]

No way! I feel the need to tell him if there is something on the other channel when I want to watch Corrie!! I just can't not tell him anything!

Hubby know's about AB cos when I am replying to a thread and he starts talking I shout to shut up (If I lose concentration thats it!) and his usual reply is "Oh you must be on answerbank!"

Dunno whats acceptable not to tell, something that is going to incriminate you if you do say something I guess ;o)

Hmmm a few have gotten me into trouble....

[bellasasha]

weird how some girls do....sorry for hijacking whiskey!!!

[helliebobs]

whiskey, did you ask the question because you have a guilty conscience or something? ;)

[*Zeus*]

Are you having an affair Whiskey !!!

[willspal]

As long as my husband was honest and told me he was going to a lap dancing club I would not mind at all. .

Yes he knows about AB and could not care less what I wrote on here. I have read out things to him but his face always looks blank with uninterest.

I don't have secrets on a big scale. Only the �180 handbag that I had to have that was in the bargin bin and reduced to �20 !!!!!!!!!!!!! Still he is not daft and knows full well it was never in the bargin bin, he has heard that story far to many times.

I am far far to stupid to get away with any big secrets, if I had an affair I would proberly give myself away the first night by actually forgetting it was meant to be a secret and actually telling my husband. Just not worth the trouble.

WP

[helliebobs]

only with me Zeus!!

[*Zeus*]

can I watch Hellie !

[helliebobs]

no, stick to your lapdancers Zeus!!!

[SaxyJag]

Don't usually keep secrets - it's not worth it. 25 years married to the same bloke is my proof.

When I do keep secrets. more often than not they're nice ones - like hiding his pressies. Oh, and telling him we've got less money than we have just so's we can make it through to pay day without him spending it on sweeties and other stuff we don't need.

[helliebobs]

does he spend a fortune on pick 'n' mix like my hubby Saxyjag?!

[whiskeysheri]

Hmmm, everyone seems pretty innocent! I'm quite surprised, thought there'd be some confessions.

No, Zeus, not having an affair... x

[helliebobs]

no confessions anyone wants to admit to!!

[*Zeus*]

i robbed a bank once....never got caught

[Agent_Smith]

yes

yes

everything....what they dont know cant hurt!!

hell yes..............!!!