is she approachable?

[ajmmac]

maybe not the right site but then maybe someone can advise--i am a widower and there is a woman i would like to get to know better--i know she is married--i know her and her husband plus their 2 daughters--recently i have seen her out and about with her daughters but not her husband--nor have i seen him for some time--she no longer has her wedding/engagement rings on her left hand tho she has what could be them on her right hand--perhaps some women there could advise me if this is a way of indicating anything or is it just a case that the rings no longer fit the usual fingers--i feel really attracted to this woman but don't want to make an ass of it if she is still truly with her husband

[Aliceband]

you know she is still married. Whether she wears her wedding ring or not. Are you 2 friends?

[Rubyrose]

If you are friends with her then you could ask her... or what about inviting her out for a social event. Something that wouldn't seem like a date but where you could get to know her and find out more?

xx

[dot.hawkes]

leave well alone, plenty more fish in the sea

[Rubyrose]

FGS Dot.. do you ever dish out good advice?

ajmmac.. If she is with someone then the respectable thing to do would be to leave her be but with all that said and done the person she is with now.. may not be right for her. I am not telling you to break up a happy home though. Find out her situation and take it from there. At the end of the day its her choice too.

[Bohne]

If she's married, she's married.

What does it matter, whether she is wearing her rings?

[kazzianne]

why not invite her and her husband out? That then gives her the option to tell you if they are together or not. And if they are together and she accepts,well you know both of them anyway dont you.

[metagirl]

marriage is marriage even if it is an unhappy one BUT where's the fun in that? i also think you should invite both her and her husband out - if they agree then you can pick up any 'signs'. hopefully for you though she'll say her husband is too busy with his young tart but she's free! let us know what you decide!

[noxlumos]

Hi, Well imho it's the usual custom of women who are divorced/sperated to wear their rings on their right hand, is that what you are asking? You're wondering if the husband is still on the scene, right? Good advice from rubyrose, get chatting to her and mention some social gathering and ask if she and her husband are going / would like to go then if he's not around she'll say "oh John and I aren't together anymore" or whatever and you should know.Just be friendly:)