I dont know what to do....

[Dan Glebitts]

im going out with a girl and shes the nicest person i've ever met. but we've never kissed or held hands yet and next time we went out i was going to make a move, but she lives a fair way away from me so that would only be in a while (a few weeks) and i aint seen her in a couple of weeks either. But the thing is ive been on msn recently and strangely enough met a girl (dont know how she got my e-mail but hey) and now she says she luvs me and stuff ever since ive been talking to her and showed her my pic. I said " i luv u" back so as not to upset her but she wants to go out with me now, as she only lives about thirty minutes away....Ive made such good freinds with her over the last few days and she really seems to luv me. She has given me her phone number and so now we txt regularly....she also showed me her picture and she seems flippin gorgeous if i might say so......What do i do....go out with my current attraction or take a chance with this mysterious beauty?????? I am in such a fix!!

[rugeleyboy]

are you on about katie??

i thought she was married with kids?

dan......... never cross the line mate, people will get hurt!!

[Dan Glebitts]

its not katie btw....

i wouldnt do that, i dont want to jeoperdise something precious

[jason1980]

Hi...your previous questions have made me laugh so I cant never tell the genuinity of your questions...

If this is real... and some girl nice looking or not told me she loved me on MSN before even knowing me properly. It's not real love, it sounds like the love of the idea of love, maybe she's using it to pull you in closer and see how gullible you are as a man. Dont let flattery rule your heart. Use your head here m8 and do whats right. At the end of the day what do you think the girls intentions are on MSN? You could end up supporting someone elses kid here if you aint careful.

Jase

[Dan Glebitts]

shes 17 like me and ive seen her on webcam with her silly mates...we've made a good relationship...and im usually a good judge of character and i know when something sounds dodgy. Trust me if u were in my shoes, you'd be wondering what to do as well....thanks anyway jason...much obliged :-)

[lia*]

hey dan i would tread with caution here. you said this msn chick mysteriously got you email address. suppose she is your current girl testing you. msn girl showed you pictures, but i could show you pictures also of anybody and say it's me. think about how hurt current girl will be when she finds out.
i would be carefull.

[Dan Glebitts]

my current gf dosnt know my e-mail yet but i was thinking about these points also... I think i had just better stick with what i know...plus i did tell the msn girl that i didnt think it would be good if we went out because it would get too complex....then she got upset and i comforted her...now she loves me more than ever!!! i just dont know.... :(

[jason1980]

well you're both 17 so this just sounds like typical teenage stuff. At 17 I'd have gone out with as many as possible cos thats me, but im guessing "luv" is another word for just "like" here.

[orange-gnome]

All I would say is that when you 'get to know' somebody over msn and texting you can only get to know them to a certain extent and your own hopes of what they might be like will fill in the blanks. When you meet them in person you may not have that 'spark'. It's no bad mark on your judgement of character because basically you can be anyone that you want to be in text!
So I reckon you should meet up with this msn girl and decide then before that you can't really make a judgement.

[Ashy5]

stick with the nice girl..if this new one is not shy about getting hold of strange guys then how often does she do it??

[Dan Glebitts]

ive made my decision...i'll stay 'friends' with thr msn girl but i will be continuing to go out with the original....thanks guys :-)