Too young for love?

[Ashy5]

Can a person ever be too young for love? Im 19 and hav been with my boyfriend for almost 1yre 6 months he is my most favorite person in the world but im often told that i am too young to be in love is this true?

[4getmenot]

That is for no-one to say but yourself. I tend to find that most people that get together that young where I live dont last because as they get older they wonder what they missed out on and temptation gets the best of them. But I also have two friends that have been together for 6 years since the age of 19 and are still very much in love. I think it isn�t a fact of being too young for love but almost what environment you are in to whether you withstand the pressure and temptation from the outside.

[undercovers]

no i think the young are more capable of love than the old and jaded, once you have had your heart broken you stop giving love unconditionally and start holding back on your emotion... i think what these people are telling you is that you are to young to have a sense of the pain that often accompanies love (if it goes wrong) - but this is either something you will learn or if you are lucky and this man is the one then maybe you never will and what a great life that would be.

[stylinsam]

no u are never to young to fall in love there is no more to say, if u feel like you love someone dont let anyone tell u different, BUT make sure u dont get confused with love and lust

SSx

[raysparx]

Hi Ashy, what do your elders know? i'll tell you ,diddly squat, I am in my 50s I met my wife when she was16 I was 18, we split up for a year when I was 23 got back together and married within 3 months we have now been married 35 years, so now to answer your Question love is love if you are 16 or 86 just be happy and live your own life ,don't take any notice of all the old gits,you may grow apart you may not,enjoy the moment, Take care, Ray, God i'm an old git myself!!!

[ktlou]

I fell in love with my man at 17 and still love him now (i'm 22). My mum and dad got together at 15, got married at 18 and 26 years on are still completely in love and happily married! So no, I don't think you are ever too young to be in love! Go with your heart Ashy5!

[rugeleyboy]

ray.......... your like a a wise man who lives on a mountain!!

your advise is second to non sir and i salute you!!

[SaxyJag]

You're absolutely not too young. You're never too young for real love. I met my bloke when I was eighteen, married him when I was nineteen. That was nearly twenty-seven years ago and we're still strong.

[raysparx]

Why thank you rugeley, I have been called many things but never wise, also how did you know I lived on a mountain? that is true wisdom are you the allseeing one? take care rugeley, Ray

[Rubyrose]

I was in love at 16 and it lasted until I was 21! I don't think love has age barriers but I think as you get older the love becomes more grown up and it then that you start to realise that there is different types on love.

[WendyS]

No, you're not too young to be in love. You're possibly too young to be thinking about settling down as you really haven't yet had much opportunity to get out and experience what life is all about. That's the difference.

[jan1956]

no you are not too young, I got married at 19, coming up for 31 years in August, some people give up too soon thats all

cheers jan

[nattab]

the fact that you say he is your most favourite person in the world and not something else like your soulmate or the love of your life, tells me that this is more lust than love. Just be sure of your feelings before you get into anything serious. My husband is the only man i have ever told i love and i was only 20 when i got married.

I hope your relationship works out, but you have to be sure of what you want or you will wake up one day with a child, in bed next to your husband, thinking why the hell did i get involved with him in the first place (like my sister who is a year younger than me)

Just be true to yourself and your feelings and be happy

[lubilu]

no way are you to young.i fell in love with my boyfriend at 17 and at 18 we got married and 16 years later still married with 2 kids.you now how you feel and mature and 19 ,the only thing you listern to is your heart it will tell you all you need to know.x