not ranting, just calm and collected

[nattab]

well guys, i wasn't on much yesterday as i spent time at my sisters and stayed overnight to consider what i thought about the question posed in 'got to rant'.

I went to my parents this morning and told my dad how i felt and talked things through. He asked me what i wanted to do and i gave him the only honest answer i had, 'I'm going to finish with him and ask him to leave', you see, after i confronted him with what everyone had said the other night, he refused to talk to me, so i decided enough was enough, and thanks to everyone's words of support, i feel like a huge weight has been lifted. I can now start building a life for myself, and i think it should start with a girly holiday with my sister, even if it is only to towyn in wales, (ahh, back to my childhood).

Plus i have a job interview for asda on thursday afternoon, and my mum and dad said they will take me out for a meal for my birthday on friday.

[jno]

brave lady - not easy to do. Best wishes for the future.

[nattab]

thanks jno

[ruthann58]

good luck girl xxx

[Maggie-Mae]

Good for you nattab - all the very best for the future xxxxx

[caz21]

That is good news hun!! You deserve better! get out there and enjoy life!

And i hope you have a great birthday on friday!!

xx

[nattab]

thanks everyone, just going off to have a long soak in the bath, with a bottle of baileys from my sister, see you all in about 2hours.

[kazzianne]

Awww Nattab - that must have been so hard for you! I dont know how long you two had been together but I think you have done the right thing.Perhaps now he will realise what he has lost.If you wana email me later you're more than welcome(I have stuff to do later so cant come on AB) and can chat tomorrow.

Bigs hugs to you.xx

[horselady]

My turn to support you now nattab. Be strong, you've got your whole life ahead of you, live it and enjoy it.

xxx

[nattab]

thanks guys. u know i got in the bath before and shaved my legs for the first time in three months, gross i know, but it feels so good.

The small pleasures in life eh, :)

[nattab]

we were together four and married 3 and 1/2 years

[spk]

good for you nattab. All the best with it and good luck with the interview. Well done for seeing you deserve so much more xx