bad kissing!

[juicy]

Ok, I'm 19 years old and I can honestly say I have never had a good kiss! I've kissed about 6 or 7 men and not once have I particularly enjoyed it - even with the guys I was really attracted to. Am starting to think the problem is me... anyone else been in this position?

[Supernick]

I think that over the years I've kind of come to the conclusion that there is no such thing as a good or bad kisser, just 2 people that either connect with their 'styles' or not.

Having said that, it depends what you're looking for in a kiss to be honest. I've never been a fan of too much tongue - i hate it if a girl really uses a lot, like we're 15 or something. Also girls that open their mouths far too wide. Don't mind the occasional bite on the lip though!

[flipflop104]

Same happened with me, then I got kissed by a girl and I've never been with a guy since. I'm not saying you are a lesbian but that's what happened to me.

You're only 19, there's plenty of kissing to be done. I find slow, lingering kisses with a bit of tongue and the lips really relaxed and soft really work for me. Heavy snogging is only good in the heat of passion.

[Rubyrose]

I have had a few bad kisses in my time and some good ones too. But when I was with my ex.. he was a great kisser and we would kiss for ages and I honestly forgot that kissing could be bad! I was with him 5yrs and so used to having a good kiss! Then recently I went out and kissed a few guys.. one of them was terrible and it put me off him straight away! He was sucking my face and all sorts! It makes me cringe. I don't get it... I really don't get how people can be bad at it.. its so easy to do! I can't stand the thought of a bad kisser... ewww *shudder*

I don't think I am helping am I? I just wanted to share really. Lol

[Rubyrose]

I totally agree with Flipflops last comment. About kissing being relaxed and lingering and a little bit of tongue. None of this 'whole tongue being shoved into your mouth'... or those little jabbing tongue movements! Ewwww... *shudder again*

[Octavius]

Thats because you haven't kissed me yet!!

No, I agree with the above, it's a connection thing. I have had a few kisses and my worst experience was a young lady whose kisses could only be described as 'like a washing machine'.

Keep on kissing and you will find something/someone that floats your boat!