what if a guy broke up with u and still loved u

[thesecrets21]

my bf just broke up with me but tells me he still loves me.what does this mean?does he want to get back together or not?

[Postdog]

No, it means he wants to hedge his bets and/or do naughties sometime without the hassle of being involved.

By the way, I'm a bloke...

[helliebobs]

yeah sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it!!!

[Dot:Hawkes]

He doesn't sound very mature at all, by doing it that way he has avoided a row I suppose

[Ethel]

Time to find someone else, or enjoy your own space.

You deserve better.

[Drusilla1S]

It means he is very immature and you are well shot of the drippy loser. I hope you find a handsome, truly confident man who will treat you with love and respect and not play childish games with you. Good luck!

[~Wingnut~]

I'm afraid I agree with everyone above thesecrets21, if he loved you why finish with you? Sounds like he wants his fun with no strings attached and then be able to come back to you when he has finished sowing his wild oats.
Find someone who is going to treat you how you deserve to be treated and not mess you about and expect you to be waiting for them! He's just an immature nob!

[ludwig]

On the other hand, to be fair to the guy, it could just as well be that he's trying to be nice to you and let you down gently, so you don't feel so bad about yourself. It may be a misguided approach, but he probly thinks it's better than saying, 'welcome to dumpsville, population - you'.
Either way, try to move on.

[Lonnie]

I'm not too sure, I can understand the above answers, but I've been married to the same woman for twenty seven years now, and couldn't be happier, but while we were courting, I broke it off, mainly because I wasn't used to being a one woman man, luckily. when I realised that she was the one, she took me back, so there are exceptions.

In the end, you have to follow your own instincts, for better or worse, its your decision.

[bloaterbum]

he;s playing with your emotions doll don't let him get awawy with it stay away and hopefully you will find a more worthy partner.Good luck

[heffalump]

My ex said the same to me 5 years ago. Since then every time he's broken up with someone else he came crawling back to me, saying that he was ready to commit, and me being the trusting idiot that I was took him back (often ending relationships that I was in), only to have the same thing happen again (and again, and again ...). Found out a couple of months ago that he's got the current gf pregnant and they're going to get married next month - thing is he was supposed to be with me at the time this happened! And he still wants to keep seeing me - they're only getting married for the sake of the kid (bet this isn't what she thinks...!) Of course your bf is probably a decent human being, with a commitment phobia!!