Men should be men?

[prettyruskie]

Is it just me who thinks men should be men and not go in for the moisturising cream/waxing/perfume?I know alot of men who are your average slob.Never taking care of their appearence but I think that is how a man should be.Anyone agree?

[4getmenot]

I think maybe your dad only uses soap because he cant afford the shampoo after paying out for your college fees, numerous laptops, and the �50,000 car he got you. Maybe if you cry he will start buying it.

[Octavius]

Oh for goodness sake, drop this rubbish.

[4getmenot]

Drop what rubbish octavious? You telling me to or sexyrussian, sexysvetlana, prettyruskie changing all her names all the time and talking more rubbish.

[Pippa68]

Please don't bump up her thread count ~ she will feel all important again :o(

Oh ******..I just helped!

[redcrx]

lol 4getmenot.

I cant see how someone would want their dad to look like a slob either. Buy him some shampoo!

And theres a difference between a guy who doesnt wax or moisturise and a guy who doesnt look after himself at all and stinks of BO, is filthy and unclean. Just like a guy who moisturises isnt a soft lad rather than a man.

[Octavius]

4getmenot (living up to the name).

Yes I remember the posts about the �50k car, the crying to the copper, blah blah blah. There is just no reason to kep repeating it, it is very very dull. So what if this person has multiple names, it really really shouldn't matter that much to you. Who cares? You do. And my final point - you are playing the game that this poster so wants you to play, so who is the silly one?

[redcrx]

Octavious, before you say continue at 4getmenot for playing the russians game dont forget that before 4getmenot posted you had added 3 posts to the russians list.

I say that we should all resist the urge to even answer any of her posts and then no-one can bicker about who's silly and who isnt. Lets just leave her and her multiple personalities to themselves.

[Octavius]

Unfortunately due to the capricious nature of the site today I had to post my (originally 1) answer in 3 separate bits.

I think if a genuine question is asked whoever wishes to should answer, regarless of who asks. Rattling on about particular users in a thread monotonous. I shall say no more on that as I am boring myself.

[whiskeysheri]

You'd not think too much of my boyfriend then, ruskie!

He moisturises a lot! I even pluck between his eye brows for him, just so that he doesn't have a mono-brow. There's absolutely nothing wrong with a pleasant-smelling, clean and hygienic guy.

I'd also like to add, he is tall, rugged, and a messy slob! Best of both worlds for me! :o)

[unruliejulie]

well i think if men want to use moisturiser then thats fine. I hate the feeling of dry skin so why shouldn't men feel the same. my hubby is always very clean and always smells nice. I love a man who wears aftershave. Sometimes, if im walking down the street and a chap passes me and i get a waft, i think its very nice! i don't like the thought of blokes waxing though, no need, saying that, i detest hairy backs!!! I don't think i could be doing with a bloke who spent more time in the bathroom preening than me.

[noxlumos]

Who wants to live with a slob? I like to think I'm a reasonably strong blokey bloke but I shower to be clean and take a sauna once daily.I also use moisturiser and aftershave ( my wife likes it) and I look after my nails (God I am sounding poofy, now that it's in black and white lol) and I run and work out to keep fit, but why is any of that un-masculine? A nice looking bloke is as able as a slob to fight and f**k so how is it wrong to look after yourself?

[redcrx]

noxlomus, ruskie isnt interested if a man can f**k or not lol

[sexyrussian]

Octavius thank you very much.I feel that if someone askes a question that you are interested in then you should answer it regardless of who asked it.If you don't want to answer than don't and leave those that do want to answer alone.I would always answer a question if I found it interesting no matter who it was.Also I have multiple usernames but I always say it is me.I mean it is obvious they are me.I just like variety not pretending I am someone else.Anyway my exam is finished now so I am so happy.,

[johnlambert]

If you really are a lesbian why concern yourself with whether men moisturise/wax/perfume?

[sexyrussian]

It just annoys me that men ''look after themselves''. It is fine to keep clean and tidy but grooming is OTT. I prefer men(as friends) who are clean but not into grooming.Like my Dad.