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Childish Girl
i really DONT want to meet up as she will try to mess my head again, this is the first time ive felt POSITIVE since SHE DUMPED ME.
anyway i spent 20quid getting her things in the post to her and i asked very nicely iff she could send me my suit and belongings from her house....
she said NO if you want them it will have to be on my terms and that means you coming to my house to get them !!!
This is just so childish and unfair, the suit was pretty expensive and I suppose I could live without it, but why is she being so petty if she has got a new boyfriend, I just wanna move on wityh my life like she has but its like she doesnt want me to, and doesnt like the idea of me being positive and moving on
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seriously mate, i wouldn't go anywhere near her house! Get a mate to pick up your stuff, or go without it - whats a suit really?? If you go there you're gonna be back at square one with getting over her. The longer you can avoid seeing her, the easier it will be to move on. Forget her and her childish ways, you can do a lot better than that. Don't reply to her text messages, just pretend they never arrived and move on with your life. You aren't together anymore so she has no control over you - let her run her new mans life and not yours!!
I say go to her house and pick them up, just be happy and carefree, if she asks what you have been up to, either make something up ie. Started going out more, joined an evening class etc.. you get the drift. Don't show her that your at all bothered about being there, say you only sent her stuff as you have been SO busy going out etc.. that you figured it was best to send them so she would get them sooner rather than later (or say you new girlfriend doesn't like seeing her crap round the place!)
Just show you don't give 2 hoots, pick your stuff up and cut all ties, get a new mobile number (or block hers) and tell your mates that they are NOT to give it to her.
Failing all that, write the suit off, change your mobile number and forget about her.
Best of luck, please try to move on for your own sanity :o)
Backdrifter - as per the first line of my reply, I'm fairly certain that salisbury is actually jibjab, who came here a few months ago after the break up - since then we've heard quite a lot about this ex-girlfriend and it's basically the same thing all the time!
jibjab/salisbury - hun, go on holiday or something, get away from the ex and get yourself a much better life without her. I'm not being horrible about you btw, its just that this seems to have been going on for a really really long time with us all giving you the same advice!!