what do i do? help!

[Chriswood8]

right i'm in a bit of a dilemma, i'm 23 i've just started work at a new place been there 2 weeks, i've met a girl there called **** and shes 27 who works there also, at the first moment we met we got on so well, i've never got on so well with a girl in my life, about a week later she got my number off a mate and ever since she always randomly texts me and i mean always i counted 23 textes in one day yesterday and she always says thing like how i'm a great guy and how we would make a great couple, i get the feeling she really likes me and i feel the same way she even asked me to go for a drink today so i did, but heres the thing, ready for it she's married! what the hell do i do?

[dot.hawkes]

what he said^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

[turboped]

Sounds like a bunny boiler to me.

[steve208]

Much as you might want to go with your heart please stop and think about things. Ok Im sure this is great that you have met someone you get along so well with and if you have not clicked with someone this much its understandable you want to be with her.

If she is married then you must recognise the committment marriage involves. Be friends with her by all means but just try not to do anything that might mean she has to choose between you and her partner.

Also think about the fact that you have not been at this work place long and there must be many other single women you can meet. And if you do get with her I must say all the work place romances I have known have not worked out, its just too stressful working and living/dating together.

[fat rascal]

as said before... leave well alone...

[Richie1976]

Sh*g her.

[Chriswood8]

sorry but richie1974 after reading all the stuff before you and then reading yours i absolutly wet myself!

oh ward minster u put leave her alone but really it's the other way round

ok fair enought everyone but she has told me that she is not happy in her marridge, and i have been in love before so yes i do know what i'm on about, but it's more than anything anybody had said fair eonugh leave her alone but you just dont get it honestly. people do believe me included that something can happen straight away when 2 people first meet, doesnt matter if you known each other for 2 minutes or 2 years you just 'know'

[Chriswood8]

if anybody who put an answer to this question ever see's this again i just want to say that me and the girl from work are now officially together, she left her husband and we now live together. i give her what her busband never could. so i declair this a happy ending