Lads night

[salisbury]

Having both just recently broe up with girlfriends, me and me mate are off out tomorrow night, not necessarily on the pull but we wouldnt say no if the right offer came along!

The thing is, hes only ever been with one girl and was with her for 5 years, whereas ive been with mine for 2....

We have both said we are just going out for the laugh and we genuinely are, but we have both lost touch really with single life as we used to do COUPLY things.

We just really want some tips as to what you women look for on a night out?

I know that bars and clubs are not the best places to meet potential partners ..........

we are both young with decent jobs and are nice lads (in my opinion) we shouldnt have much trouble, but it dont always work out like that does it?

hehehehe

cheers

x

[4getmenot]

As we've said before you dont need a woman to be while again. I know you say you're just going out to have a laugh but to me I think you're trying to fill a deep hole this ex of yours left. So if you really want to go out and have a laugh do that, go out enjoy yourself dont think about women and they will come to you. Be yourself. No girl likes a show off drunk that is trying to letch all over them, If they do then they are just desperate to pull like you. Try not to even think about it when you go out you'll have a much better time :-) Have Fun

[4getmenot]

That meant to say whole again :-)

[Englishbird]

Just go and talk to them - it's that simple.

Opener "Hi girls, are you having a good evening"

Just be yourselves and have a chat. From what you say I don't think that either of you need to 'meet' women at the moment, so just go out with the view of having a good laugh and of making new friends - single friends, it's terrifying when you first find yourself single again after a long time, so it's great when you meet lots of people in the same boat.

Have a good night - btw, can I come? got no-one to go out and play with this evening :o(

[Octavius]

If I were you I'd just forget about the girls for one evening and enjoy being single with your mate for the night and have a good sesh. You never know, the girls might just come on to you, but either way, you're sure to have a good night.

[nat_84]

I agree with 4getmenot.

Dont get pissed out your head... even though thats what you'll probably do - for a confidence boost... because thats why i do!

But you'll definately you get more female attention if you're not hammered and not being a sleazy drunk!

I do find that you meet people when you're least expecting it... so just go out with your mate to enjoy yourselves.

Hope you have a good night - pulling or not.x

[Hellion]

I never liked 'just' pubs and I hated night clubs, a great alternative is a pub or club with a live band. You can have a drink, watch the band, eye up girls without it being obvious and it gives you something to talk about if there are some nice girls there, if not, just enjoy the music, no pressure. If you do see a girl you like the simple 'Can I buy you a drink? is often a good starter (but wait until she's finished the drink she's got or it looks like your trying to get her drunk!).

Don't limit yourself to one type of music either - blues, rock, indy, folk etc. etc. you'd be suprised who goes to gigs.

Have a great night out guys!!!

[ronnie_07]

I agree with forgetmenot. Go out and just aim to enjoy yourselves. Having just come out of a 8 year relationship, thats all I aim to do. Re-discover who you guys are individually and if your having a laugh girls will notice you. As long as you aint being sleazy most girls will notice that, and you may get some female attention. Just be genuine and honest. Isnt that what all us girls want? I am right here ladies ????..

Enjoy your night out lads... but pulling isnt the outcome of the night- its just a nice added bonus !

[Hellion]

Absolutely right Ronnie!