men!!!

[christin4]

please help.....i was going out with my ex for about 10 weeks. he told me he loved me and we had a beautiful weekend together. now a week later hes told me he doesnt want to be with me anymore because he thinks we both have different lifestyles and maybe hes too old for me ( hes three years older ) i totally dont understand how one minute everything can be perfect and hes telling me he loves me and then the next hes ended it and even worse through a text message. im totally heartbroken and everyone tells me hes not worth it but i think im in love with him and it hurts :( xx

[country_boy]

anyone who dumps by text really isn't worth being with anyway, bloody chicken! You'll find someone better, just nurse your wounds and have fun with your mates - in a couple of weeks you'll wonder what you saw in him anyway. Take care

[simsfreq]

Do you mind me asking how old you are?

Ten weeks really isn't very long for you to believe it could last forever.

Also, if he's so much of a coward he has to dump you by text message, he isn't worth it! It's Friday tomorrow, go out with your girlfriends and have fun ;-)

[christin4]

aww thanks....im going out tomorrow night and holiday aswell so hopefully il have fun!! thx guys! x x x

[Champagne]

I'm really sorry that you're feeling down over this, but to be perfectly honest this guy sounds like a loser to finish with you via text. It's a wimp's way out.

You will get over this man and I'm sure your holiday will make you realise that you were wasting your time! You do sound quite young, Christin4 (the best name in the world, by the way!), so do me a favour and don't take men too seriously yet. Have fun whilse you're young and worry about relationships when you've seen life through lived eyes.

Happy holidaying! x

[Goodsoulette]

I wouldnt trust anyone who told me they loved me that soon. Even if you think it you dont say it that early, and some men use it to get things they want.
Your holiday will do you loads of good and just spend lotas of time with the girls (and wine)

[redcrx]

an ex of mine did same thing 2 weeks after a dream holiday to NY, though it was face to face on new years eve, not by text. It was heartbreaking at the time but youll realise soon that you had lucky escape if he can be that heartless to dump you in such a way.

[CaptainDitch]

Hello redcrx......... I wonder who you are talking about there then??? (Grin)
Well christin4, I'm afraid this guy was just telling you what you wanted to hear, to get what he wanted out of you!
As soon as he got what he wanted, or got bored, then it was bound to happen?!
Though if he was an "Ex"......... Then i dont know what you were doing going back for more anyway??
Maybe it's just easier, coz it's comfortable for a short while, but history is bound to repeat itself in the end?!
Anyway........ I cant talk, I've been in love for three and a half years with someone i can't be with......... And i'm not exactly "Young" myself........ So i'm afraid it doesn't get any easier?!!
So christin4......... Just go out there, have fun, and enjoy yourself..!! Look after numer one, and dont worry about anyone else for a while!
.........Enjoy.!!!
;-)

[redcrx]

Captain, i think she means that he is now her ex and yes you do know who i was talking about. :-)

[CaptainDitch]

Oh...... Ok redcrx
She probably did mean he's "Now" her ex?!!
(Oops!)

And christin4.........
I'm afraid the more people tell you he's not worth it.........
The more likely you are to want him.!
It's sad, and seems stupid to me, but thats how it seems to work in this crazy old world of ours?!!!

Good Luck with it all though!!!

:o)

[twain11]

It's unfortunate that this cowardly custard finished it by text. However, if that is the way the cretin deals with situations then you are best off not being with him at all. Further to previous replies, you are bound to cheer yourself up by going out with your mateys and enjoying their company. Remember, 10 weeks is a snip of your life so try not to rush into things in the future, take it easy and things work out a lot better! Good luck.