Friends

[sarah*]

Hi

i was down my best mates (lad) house and im very close with this guy we had a bit of a history last xmas when we both told each other we liked them but nothing happened due to reasons.

anyway he started going out with another girl after that and we just stayed really good mates and actually got alot closer as mates
i was down his house on saturday and hepled him clean his room and danced to music and while he was sitting there i decided to give him a shoulder massage and he enjoyed it so much he asked for a back massage and got topless lol
anyway we talked while i gave him massage nd he opened up and sed he felt really close and was glad he had me as a m8 and stuff, but for some reason when i got home i felt really guilty i mean i didnt do anything but give him a massage and i did thing about it while i was giving him a massage but would never have done anything as i resect him to much but still felt bad about it cus he got a gf , am i in the wrong here please help

[SaxyJag]

If he's such a good friend, then talk to him about it. Tell him how bad you feel. He probably feels the same.

If there was more to it than friendship, then it would be a chance for you both to come to terms with this.

[China Doll]

Not sure if you're feeling guilty cause of the actual massage or what might have been racing through your head while you were doing it... maybe six of one and half a dozen of the other. I have to say, if I was the girlfriend and found out, I'd be less than impressed with either of you, (sorry, don't mean to sound harsh).

Anyway, I think you need to speak to your friend as it sounds like you both have feelings for each other. This is cool but you need to make sure that you both just want to be friends or see if you both want to take it a bit further and see what happens.

Hope it all works out for you whatever happens!