Help! I'm jealous

[Tock389]

Hello. I'm 31, male, and I work with an married man who is 44. I found out yesterday he is having an affair with a girl who I know.
I went out for a drink with this girl, but it didn't really gel.
She is lovely but it didn't work (I am single by the way) but the thing is, I feel SO jealous about this, especially working with him..
How can I cope with this? It's driving me crazy...

[suzi-q]

Maybe shes a commitment-phobe - after all youre single and she'd rather see a married man.

Find yourself someone even nicer! And dont be jealous, at least youre free to follow your fancies and no one gets hurt but they're just having a bit on the side which can only lead to trouble.

[supermodel]

one has nothing to do with the other tbh she was prolly jus more attrected to him

does he earn more ??thats usually the main reason lol

jus tell him u dont like it and you want it to stop or u will tel lhis wife

:)

[scruffscat]

Foeget her ! do you really want to be with someone so devoius as t do that.Does she know hes married where are her morals? women dont do that to other women as far as im concerened.Try an find someone with more intelligence.How could you trust her if you end up with her.

[scruffscat]

sorry about spelling !!! typin too quick.

[Champagne]

So you're not jealous of her, you're jealous of him! Why? What does he have that you don't? Is there anything else about him that you feel jealous about?

[Tock389]

Not really- just feel a bit of a failure for not getting anywhere

[noxlumos]

Oh God ... that greenie, who does it sound like?