although that would be my method of choice, I would eventually hav to re-enter the country!! any other ideas to spare her feelings!! although she isnt actually that nice to me (long story)
go on just tell her,its not as if shes with him is it so what she likes him,she will just have to deal with it at the end of the day he likes you too,if she doesnt like it and goes on one shes not a true friend,i hope shes fine and can handle it good luck x