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as some of you know my 8yr old daughter is being taunted/bullied by a 38 yr old woman, the final straw came this morning when my daughters school phoned and said she was in tears because this woman had started on her again, i have just been round to the womans house to try and put a stop to things, she started calling my daughter allsorts of things so i punched her, im not proud of the fact what can i expect if she calls the police?
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I reckon that bullying bitch is already known by the police as some of the others say loopyc and Im sure most mums and dads would do the same as you. No decent person condones violence but in a case like this Im not suprised that you punched that woman. I would have smacked her her one long ago! I hope you've calmed down a bit by now. Kay.
Hi loopy,
I feel so sorry for your daughter,this creti bullying her should be ashamed, I think you did what most parents would do,you are only protecting your child,I don't think she will call the police,because then it will all come out, don't worry,this hopefully will put a stop to it, good luck,and take care, Ray xx
I feel so sorry for your daughter,this creti bullying her should be ashamed, I think you did what most parents would do,you are only protecting your child,I don't think she will call the police,because then it will all come out, don't worry,this hopefully will put a stop to it, good luck,and take care, Ray xx
Hi loopy,
I feel so sorry for your daughter,this cretin bullying her should be ashamed, I think you did what most parents would do,you are only protecting your child,I don't think she will call the police,because then it will all come out, don't worry,this hopefully will put a stop to it, good luck,and take care, Ray xx
I feel so sorry for your daughter,this cretin bullying her should be ashamed, I think you did what most parents would do,you are only protecting your child,I don't think she will call the police,because then it will all come out, don't worry,this hopefully will put a stop to it, good luck,and take care, Ray xx
Sorry,,,,but i wouldnt have punched her loopy,,,,,
I'd have put the b1tch well and truly on her ar$e,by the time i'd finished she'd have had to put her toothbrush up her (you know what)to clean her teeth,maybe thats not a good role model,but it is the only language this creature seems to understand!!
I'd have put the b1tch well and truly on her ar$e,by the time i'd finished she'd have had to put her toothbrush up her (you know what)to clean her teeth,maybe thats not a good role model,but it is the only language this creature seems to understand!!
you're working yourself up into right pickle loopy. my heart goes out to you it really does.
as far as i can tell there's 2 ways this situation could go.
this lunatic could either go to the law and report you, which judging by her unbalanced nature is a possibility. if this happens you just have to be totally honest with the police. let them see all the evidence and tell them what happened when you went round to her house. play on the fact that you went round with the best of intentions trying to bring the matter to a close, but she lost it and you clagged her in the heat of the moment.
the 2nd scenario is that she will do nothing, the majority of bullies are quick to learn a lesson once someone stands up to them. just make sure she doesnt take any further action towards your daughter because of this. if she is as mentally unhinged as she seems then i hate to say it but this is a possibility.
actually, the more i think about it the more the idea of going to the police yourself appeals to me. tell them what has happened, give them the full sobstory of how you were at your wits end and afraid for your daughters safety.
whichever happens, i cant see the police being keen to side with a grown woman who is pestering an 8yr old. could you imagine the bad press they would get.
anyway, i wish you the best of luck.
as far as i can tell there's 2 ways this situation could go.
this lunatic could either go to the law and report you, which judging by her unbalanced nature is a possibility. if this happens you just have to be totally honest with the police. let them see all the evidence and tell them what happened when you went round to her house. play on the fact that you went round with the best of intentions trying to bring the matter to a close, but she lost it and you clagged her in the heat of the moment.
the 2nd scenario is that she will do nothing, the majority of bullies are quick to learn a lesson once someone stands up to them. just make sure she doesnt take any further action towards your daughter because of this. if she is as mentally unhinged as she seems then i hate to say it but this is a possibility.
actually, the more i think about it the more the idea of going to the police yourself appeals to me. tell them what has happened, give them the full sobstory of how you were at your wits end and afraid for your daughters safety.
whichever happens, i cant see the police being keen to side with a grown woman who is pestering an 8yr old. could you imagine the bad press they would get.
anyway, i wish you the best of luck.
You did the right thing loopy. Even if she does get the police involved, they'll understand exactly why you did it when they hear the full story. Chances are they'll go straight round to hers to tell her you're pressing charges back and would she like to drop her complaint before it goes too far.
If you live in the Manchester area and you want me to go round and finish her off for you I'd be only to happy to help out ;o)
If you live in the Manchester area and you want me to go round and finish her off for you I'd be only to happy to help out ;o)
well done hun im so proud of you at last someone willing to use action instead of words if she reports you smack her again you cannot reason with someone of that calibre dont worry about the police plead human rights theyll get you a kfc and 2 litres of coke big hugs to you and your daughter i hope that bitch has learnt her lesson
just got home and seen all your replies thank you all xx
spoke with her neighbour she says she desevered it and if it comes to it will tell the police she saw nothing so im ok there! about to go to school where i will see the awful woman again but she does'nt have a leg to stand on. thank you for your support xxxx
spoke with her neighbour she says she desevered it and if it comes to it will tell the police she saw nothing so im ok there! about to go to school where i will see the awful woman again but she does'nt have a leg to stand on. thank you for your support xxxx
Good on you loopy.
If you never pay anymore attention to anything I ever say again pay attention to this. What Drusilla and a couple of others said is exactly right, DO NOT admit hitting her for any reason at all. Say she was shoving you and you put your hands up to protect yourself and her lip was cut accidentally. Act the height of distress and responsibility and DENY, DENY, DENY punching her . I doubt the police will even come if she called them and I doubt she called them, so I don't think there is anything to worry about at all, but you don't want caution and you don't want any negative involvement with the police you don't have to have so DENY the whole thing. Rememebr however implausible anything sounds, doesn't matter, they have to PROVE you did something which if you persistantly deny and they have no witnessness' they'll never be able to do, so they'll drop it.
Just relax , you did the right thing and you've got nothing to worry about. Well done.
If you never pay anymore attention to anything I ever say again pay attention to this. What Drusilla and a couple of others said is exactly right, DO NOT admit hitting her for any reason at all. Say she was shoving you and you put your hands up to protect yourself and her lip was cut accidentally. Act the height of distress and responsibility and DENY, DENY, DENY punching her . I doubt the police will even come if she called them and I doubt she called them, so I don't think there is anything to worry about at all, but you don't want caution and you don't want any negative involvement with the police you don't have to have so DENY the whole thing. Rememebr however implausible anything sounds, doesn't matter, they have to PROVE you did something which if you persistantly deny and they have no witnessness' they'll never be able to do, so they'll drop it.
Just relax , you did the right thing and you've got nothing to worry about. Well done.
that is good new loopy, bullies are a waste of space,they don't like it if you stand up to them, she deserved it, ray xx
Hi champagne, I think I will back out of fighting you, god you are scary when angry, I will lick your Boots clean, did I say Boots ? ishould have had a Bs on the end not a Ts
oh well take care, you win, Ray xx
Hi champagne, I think I will back out of fighting you, god you are scary when angry, I will lick your Boots clean, did I say Boots ? ishould have had a Bs on the end not a Ts
oh well take care, you win, Ray xx
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