The best things come to those who wait?

[Cockney_si]

Is this true, I've been waiting ages, so much so that now i'm finding it hard for depression to keep from creeping in.

I'm usually such a happy go lucky guy but sometimes I just wanna fast forward my life to the best bits.

[paulakea]

how old are you for starters?

[4getmenot]

and what exactly are you waiting for. Because I personally think the best things dont come to those who wait otherwise why would we have the saying a watched kettle never boils or live for the moment. I think not even thinking about it makes it come along, whatever that is. like the you'll find love when you least expect it. :-)

[Catso]

No, I don't think so. The best things come to those that go out and look for them. And find them while you're sat at home waiting.

[China Doll]

Sometimes you have to wait. Sometimes you have to make your own luck and take your chances. It depends on the situation. I hope you feel a bit better soon xx

[raysparx1]

For christ sake,don't wish your life away,it goes quickly enough as it is,just enjoy it,do what you want to do,don't stick in a job if you hate it,don't stay with someone if you don't love them, make the most of life,it is there to live,now go out and get some of it !!!!

[stylinsam]

iv been waiting since the day i was born but i dont no what for!! lol ;oP

[crete]

great response raysparx but this person may be depressed and all he needs is someone to say snap out of it life is not easy for a lot of people

[raysparx1]

You must never wish your life away,I didn't get the impression Cockney was depressed, If he/she is then they must seek help,I just gave my outlook on life,thats all !!!

[Cockney_si]

I'm old enough to have been there and done that (30) and also I'm waiting for the the girl of my dreams to walk back into my life....

I know that sometimes the waiting is the hardest thing to do and I've been trying to get on with things but I have many distractions and friends that are there during the days, but the nights are pretty lonely.

Maybe it's just the heat getting to me.
Thanks for your views :o)

[raysparx1]

Hi Cockney, I know what you mean about the nights, as the saying goes,the darkest hour is just before the dawn, if you are feeling a bit down,please talk to somebody,no good bottling it up, hope the light starts shining through soon,take care, Ray

[crete]

cockney the girl of your dreams is not whiffey but i knowq who might be

[loopyc]

i have been depressed for years ive tried anti depressants, counselling basically you name it ive tried, and i like you felt i was waiting for something but the last year, even though it has been an awful year for me i have realised only i can help me, i would go out with a smile on my face even if its forced, pretend to be happy and slowly my depression started to lift, its a fight but one you can win, as for waiting for things to happen some times they do but alot of the time YOU have to make these things happen, so think about the things you enjoy start doing them and you never know while you are enjoying yourself that special some body may just be there. Dont give up on yourself, try new things and try to find happiness in the smallest of things. Good luck cockney-si xxx

[crete]

good for you loopyc

[Tha-Flash]

It would be nice to think that it's true. And it will be true in some situations. BUT mostly you have to go out and get/find what you are looking for.