Oh dear, it's called 'urge incontinence' and may just call for some bladder retraining (once infection has been ruled out). Just means that you've probably got yourself into a bad habit where your body thinks it needs to go to the toilet before it has too. may just need a bit of re-training where you time yourself inbetween going, and hold on that bit longer. Whatever you do, don't cut down on fluid intake, as more concentrated urine irritates the bladder wall, and makes you want to go even more. Good luck!